I’m in Norway. What do I think about that? FUCK THAT! -15 celcius! Ahh well, I'll just have to find multiple Alsklings (Swedish word for lover) to help me keep warm at night! But I can’t lie around all day with Norska Alsklings when I have TWO MORE HOTSEATS TO TEACH IN THIS WINTER WONDERLAND.



One More in Norway tomorrow starting at 12.30pm at the Anker hotel in Oslo… And then the GRAND FINAL… THE SUPERBOWL OF PICK-UP EUROPE::: THE LONDON FREE TOUR AND HOTSEAT!

For your information the London free tour will be this Thursday night 8pm-10pm @ Holiday
Inn London Bloomsbury (Tube: Russell Square) Coram Street, London, WC1N 1HT.

Attendance is completely free but let us know before you come so we can organize the right
sized room for you. email support@realsocialdynamics.com

HotSeat; January 26, 2013: Oslo, Norway
HotSeat; February 2, 2013: London, United Kingdom

AMERICA (FUCK YEAH)

HotSeat; February 16, 2013: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
HotSeat; February 23, 2013: Phoenix, Arizona, USA
HotSeat; March 2, 2013: Miami, Florida, USA

AND I WILL BE AVAILABLE TO TEACH BOOTCAMPS AT THE MIAMI MODEL SEASON **ALUMNI ONLY** BOOTCAMP BETWEEN THE DATES OF TUESDAY FEBRUARY 26TH
AND TUESDAY FEBRUARY 2ND. AGAIN, EMAIL SUPPORT@REALSOCIALDYNAMICS.COM FOR INFORMATION.

HotSeat; March 9, 2013: Denver, Colorado, USA
HotSeat; March 16, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA
HotSeat; March 23, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA
HotSeat; March 30, 2013: New York, New York, USA

Go to a Hotseat, check out the Bootcamps and enjoy a free tour email support@realsocialdynamics.com

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During this Europe trip I’ve really solidified my internalfeeling toward girls. Amidst all their drama, challenges and brattiness... I really truly, deeply, love them.

It might be because now I meet so many guys on free tours and at hotseats that all I want to do is get away from the masculine beards and more-often-than-not guys with bad breath who close-talk me, that all I want to do is
whittle the night away in interactions with graceful, cute little chicks that are such a pleasure to spend time with. Approach anxiety? What the fuck is that? I like talking to girls, there’s no other thought about it.

My man-escapism has really helped me to enjoy the girls without even needing to try. And you know what, just by enjoying their company, they enjoy me so much in return that they think it’s a great idea to go home and have sex.
The more I think about it, the more I feel it, the more I experience it the more I live the true way of the natural.

Of course I tease them and screw with them in cute ways to have a little bit of fun drama, but I just feel the pure pleasure of their prettiness and goofy ways.

I love them. I will marry an Alskling one day, but right nowits heavenly meeting so many flirting and interacting with them completely emotionally unaffected by the tests the throw at me. Inevitably, their tests buckle, they succumb to the frame battle and start to react to me. And then the seduction starts to work.

A girl reacting to you is a girl being seduced by you.

Before you know it you have all kind of compliance from gorgeous little chicks that want to spend time with you. Much better then hanging out on your own with men. Gay.

I was thinking about how to describe this feeling… this ultimate feeling of abundance, and it comes back to that good old fashioned ‘king frame’. The ultimate high value frame that’s makes all the game work.

Its particularly prominent in Denmark where the Danish king-in-waiting is married to the Aussie every-day-girl Princess Mary.



http://youtu.be/OiR-5VUOd1g

What I’m saying here is look past all those messed up approaching issues and ‘skills’ that you think you need to have and re-adjust your focus towards how your going to show the girl a good time, how you can have fun and include the girl (and people) around you, and I guarantee you with time spent together the privileges come to the guy who’s out to show value.

Translated into normal person speak: the guy who knows that he can’t control a girls emotion’s and will power and just wants to have a great time.

Imaging trading up your immersive focus from developing game skills to developing fun skills and a consistent bubbly, smooth, outgoing vibe.

Those traits alone will win the game for you. It’s a dynamic of trust that makes this work, but you can only ‘get the girl’ if you have self trust, no other way ‘works’.

Once you understand this you then need to become the recipient of privilege. Girls love to be nice to guys, girls love to show affection and love and return the feeling of 'being made to feel special'.

It’s a strange and wonderful skill if you can be graciousabout receiving a girls desire to be affectionate.

Some guys who are good with girls are good at NOTHING except letting the girl do nice things FOR him and TO him. I don’t advocate only ‘taking’ in a relationship… but its important to take, being gracious and showing a person that you truly deeply enjoy them and the nice things they do for you is incredibly rewarding for that person. A validation. And when its from the King Frame, it’s the King’s validation.

Be thing king… and then enjoy the privileges.

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Time for a little bit of video blogging fun! I want to follow up from last weeks indirect approach video from scary Germany! Now I want to tell you all about why indirect is better than direct because INDIRECT GAME allows for both types of game where as DIRECT game doesn’t allow for indirect game afterwards UNLESS YOU ARE super calibrated, which is hard for most guys.



http://youtu.be/96wkqJ4W5yo

So you can see there are quite a few pitfalls of the direct style. Direct has its advantages like self-amusement, growth, fun, drama at cetera, but overall it will be harder to keep consistency of mood, and then consistency of results if you always go direct.

You MUST be able to temper yourself and control the flow of emotions. Note the Finland president checking out Australian Princess of Denmark, Princess Mary! Haha ultimate representation of the fin chodes!

President?!?!? Why are you looking at her when you have the hottest nicest girls in the world in your country! OMG.
Also, I love that hip hurrah song! Want to see a Dane go nuts? Play that and watch them sprint to the dance floor uncontrollably! It’s pretty awesome.

And then there is just about my favorite song of all time, Move your feet by junior senior haha. Maybe I am gay, but I have always loved that song. *Well that’s it for now! Information about USA events coming
soon!

BTW, special notice for American bootcamp alumni of any instructor! If you want to participate in an Alexander~ Bootcamp and Hotseat weekend email support@realsocialdynamics.com and tell the guys that you are interested in the volunteer program. Its been incredibly popular in Europe and it’s a great way for Tyler/Julien/Jeffy/Brad
alumni to see the complimentary Alexander style of bootcamp first hand at intense live events!

Speak to you soon and stay tuned with daily updates and tidbits by clicking like on www.facebook.com/alexanderRsd

Alexander~
Executive Coach