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I am leaving Australia forever! ...Until the End of 2012… It’s been extremely dramatic.

I’ve been working hard getting infield video in Sydney's infamous Kings Cross.

To go to Kings Cross is to put your life in danger. To try and get Infield Footage is to cheat death. Sure enough, we got some awesome shots in some hot venues. And sure enough, we had run-ins with venue security and then the Australian Police.

Suffice to say that we’re Pushing the accumulation of infield footage hard to make the hotseat something like you’ve never seen before.

But due to the courageous Police Waffle of Acousticninja99 the unit was recovered and the videos will be shown, live, at the Alex Hotseats, starting at an undisclosed location, November this year.

For an excellent example of classic Acousticninja99 waffle check out www.alexattitude.com, where a sample can be heard.

In the meantime, like always, the events are filling fast, but some Bootcamp opportunities remain.

Melbourne Friday July 20th SOLD OUT

Perth on Friday July 27th

Calgary on Friday August 3rd

Winnipeg on Friday August 10th SOLD OUT

LAS VEGAS Friday August 17th

LAS VEGAS Friday August 24th

Make summer count, email support@realsocialdynamics.com.

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Now, to the Golden Mile itself, on a topic relevant to beginners and advanced guys alike. The starting point of all interactions; what you say.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NV-GTxYeZA

To take the topic even deeper I formerly recorded a video about the “It’s Fine” bracket. The paradigm that Executive Coaches use when they’re formulating what they’re going to say to a girl during cold approach pick ups.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpD_eicW8I4

As you can see, when you’re cold approaching girls, the only way to think about ‘what you say’ is to think that it doesn’t matter what is said, and trust that what you’re saying is a large quantity of normal conversation between expression that is too extreme and too boring.

This makes the first principle of the Natural Instinct Method; Create Initiative, much easier.

See the full method here: Natural Instinct Method.

I’ve finally had the finishing touches put on www.alexattitude.com. I’ve created a system where I share my professional updates and latest content on the front page of RSDnation while concurrently posting extended in-depth articles about my RSDnation content, but in a place that allows for more personal expression and the inclusion of videos and media that is of my choice and beyond the management of Real Social Dynamics.

Check out www.alexattitude.com for an extension of this article and more examples of ‘waffle’ and what to say from the guys that I have seen to be absolutely the best at Picking up Cold Approach in the world. The article will be up by soon after the one you're reading right now.

Well, the journey goes on. I have a week in Melbourne this week to get as many final shots as I possibly can, and hopefully, without the intervention of the authorities, I’ll be able to take some of the awesome interactions all the way, without being blocked by the police.

All for the good of science, and the next evolution of the hotseat.

Stay tuned on www.alexattiude.com for all the release dates and upcoming infield video promotions, the first of me ever to be released.

Alexander~
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FACEBOOK PAGE www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd

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#1
AlexV

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Wow, awesome article.

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I've applied your principles this week.

Pulled 2 girls thursday at the same time.

Partied with 3 girls Friday at the same tim (twin + their friend).

Treated them equally. How the fuck do you close one if you t reat them all equally????

For example, had 2 girls at my place, we were drinking and smoking weed, but how the fuck can I fuck one if i have them both at my place and we're just sitting there....?
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I've been incredibly stubborn in trying different methods since I've been having so much success with my own style, but I've finally started incorporating a lot of your concepts and really happy with it! Cheers :)
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 I have to say, the biggest breakthrough since I saw Flawless natural and started with RSD so far .. related to pickup.. for me.. was Alexander's method.

Tyler's work ethic changed a lot for me professionally.
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good vids.

first one was really good
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 Awesome! What was the music in the intro/ending of the second video?
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Very awesome. Keep these coming.
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 Great article, cheers old buddy old pal!
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Great vids n article! Very applicable!
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 Hey Alex, great video :) I wanted to know how you use qualification to get girls to invest more, what's your way of approching that concept?
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 Alex, how do you expand your ability to communicate with women on an emotional (rather than a logical) level?
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 wait wut, I thought it's winter in Australia
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Hey Alex!

Really  nice video. I think this is something I need to work on, since my conversations can become too "flat" a lot of the time. I'll definitely try to incorporate some of the things you said here in my interactions. Good that you also provided some examples in the video of what to say!
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 Get your waffle on! 

Was a mindblowing, reality entending experience on bootcamp this weekend with Alex. Highly recommended for anyone to get in and do it. 

I decided to start a fresh rsdnation profile after that weekend, now I want to find the profiles for the RSD Sydney guys we met so I can buddy list them. If any of you guys see this add me, I am the guy with the busted up cheek haha
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Fuck yeah! Fuck off!
That´s great :)
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 Top shelf article as always mate!

A simple "Fuck yeah" or "fuck off"...love it! 

for eg. "Fuck yeah Essendon" or "fuck off brisbane Lions"...
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Best two videos about this topic that I've seen so far, really nailed it.

PS. Have been on à platteu in my game for quite à while, but ever since I started using the Natural Instinct method more seriously (maybe à couple of months ago) I've been noticing great improvements in my game :)

Cheers from Stockholm!
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Hahahahahah KINGS CROSS.... YES!!!  Gotta love good ol' Kings Cross.

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 Damn Alex Hot Seat is gonna be sweet, why you gotta make us wait? Haha.
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 P.S. That's crazy that it's so dangerous there in sydney, I had no idea. It's weird though b/c that sounds like fun to me, that makes me want to go there. But I don't speak the language in OOOOstraliaa. 
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ChinaBoy~ wrote:
 wait wut, I thought it's winter in Australia
haha yeah, its cold becuase its below 18 degrees celcius.

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dave7- wrote:
 Damn Alex Hot Seat is gonna be sweet, why you gotta make us wait? Haha.
haha, sorry to make you wait, but on the bright ide its more time to accumulate shots to show. Also, its pretty much a fact of recording a hotseat that you get less than a third of the good things you actually do after all the equipment issues and confrontation from authorities.

What city are you in?

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Smokin wrote:
Best two videos about this topic that I've seen so far, really nailed it.

PS. Have been on à platteu in my game for quite à while, but ever since I started using the Natural Instinct method more seriously (maybe à couple of months ago) I've been noticing great improvements in my game :)

Cheers from Stockholm!
varsågod min bra svensk compis!
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#23
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there's no reason why i am not enough
there's no reason why i am not enough
there's no reason to not go to your hot seat
natural instinct method ftw
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Austin, TX: real texas girls. I think you've said you'll be here November 24. 
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dave7- wrote:
 Damn Alex Hot Seat is gonna be sweet, why you gotta make us wait? Haha.
haha, sorry to make you wait, but on the bright ide its more time to accumulate shots to show. Also, its pretty much a fact of recording a hotseat that you get less than a third of the good things you actually do after all the equipment issues and confrontation from authorities.

What city are you in?

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Wafflesandsex wrote:
 Get your waffle on! 

Was a mindblowing, reality entending experience on bootcamp this weekend with Alex. Highly recommended for anyone to get in and do it. 

I decided to start a fresh rsdnation profile after that weekend, now I want to find the profiles for the RSD Sydney guys we met so I can buddy list them. If any of you guys see this add me, I am the guy with the busted up cheek haha
well done on participating in a harrowing weekend mate! Intense stuff for sure!

I love your user name, get your waffle on. But not like Timf Bhraowhn.

I've added you to the secret sydney facebook group.

Go hard!

Alexander~
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#26
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 This is friggin huge.

it has become really clear to me now that when you talk (a lot) the girls get turned on cognitively, then viscerally, than vaginally.

My waffle iron is phenomenal AFTER ive slept with them... guess caz i dont have an outcome anymore.

gotta activly make it sensational BEFORE.

Thanks mate!
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#27
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dude


seriously


i'm becoming a raving fucking fan here okay...

what is this.. third or fourth day i apply your stuff

Here's my huge rave on applying Alexander's principles in field based on specific situations from TODAY in the club: 
)-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------(
I just can't believe these results... I just go to a venue and end up partying with LOADS OF HOT GIRLS EVERY SINGLE TIME.

It doesn't even CROSS MY MIND that it won't happen. It just happens every single time.. third or fourth time in a row now.. Even skipped going out for a few days.. no difference, it just works and girls are basically starting to allow me to do any fucking thing I want.. 

grab 2 girls and have them ride my legs both at the same time on the dance floor? why not

give me executive control over who they talk to (if anyone outside me), naturally

stay with me for 7-8 hours straight and ignore every single other guy? without a doubt

I ask them to come to my place? Of course.

I don't ask them to come to my place? They ask me to come to my place.

I touch them anywhere I want? no resistance

approach the hottest looking girls at any time and be friendly? works
be not friendly? works
be an idiot? works
tool their friends.. yeah
just love them.. works
hate them.. works
call them out on stuff.. works
grab them and throw them around..they love it
do stuff they don't like.. they love it
do stuff they like.. they love it
tell them what's up next? they agree 100%
I'm with the 2 last girls in the club and they stay with me till the end of the night even though we're surrounded by guys? yep.

They just mumble among their friends and some hive mind reply comes out.. i don't even register that shit anymore.. it's like.. This is what I say to most things now when something "logical" comes out of a girl's mouth:

me: sure *grab*drag*

as long as you have empathy... EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING IS FINE. They want you to do it emotionally. THIS IS KEY. If you know what they want you to do emotionally, you just need to get around their logical bs and you're golden.

With the positive reference experiences from 4 days of using this stuff, opening a set looks like this now: hot girl. = opened. Guys, no guys, big fat friend no big fat friend.. you treat them equally and there's NO resistance like there used to be. Everyone's on my team.

Just got to iron out a few kinks and we're there..
I still suck at closing haha

You know how fucking liberating it is to KNOW for sure what they want emotionally? I don't mean every individual woman, I mean in general... I'm finally passing by their logical mind and talking man to woman after years of trying to figure it out. When I'm wrong it just doesn't matter to me nor them. Girls are super obvious when they don't want something. general rule: Anything but an absolute no is a yes.
 
And finally, here's my best approach from the day (fyi: had approached them before and did simple chit chat, this was the second time):
2 girls sitting with 2 guys.

me: *goes up to the one who looks most in charge*
hey, are these your friends (referring to the guys)
her: our.. new friends
me: cool *grabs both girls by the hand and starts walking to the club*
girls: bye (to the guys)
girls: you're so sure of yourself
me: I know.
And I felt completely relaxed.. no freaking out.. no adrenaline rush.. no ego.. nothing.. just a breeze..

Holy fucking shit, i wasn't even in state.

what the fuck just happened-
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awesome, this stuff really clarified a few things!
keep up recommending books and other contents
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#29
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Hey man excellent article. I am starting to understand I AM ENOUGH thing. I have been repeating it since I first heard it form you but just recently it is starting to sink in. If I am enough then I can do this this and this and they will still like me, well maybe not like me but they will still be turned on by my mere presence in a way I am turned on by them no matter what they do or say. This means I can have a shit load of fun and I will still be able to pull a lot of girls. Now that is one hell of a freeing thougth. Now I am trying to learn to have fun and self amuse and be completely free from outcome since I never was because everithing I did was in function of getting laid. Now I am starting to understand that I can get laid no matter what I do just because its a nautral human need and everyone has it.

Anyway, cheers man and thanks alot!
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Count_ wrote:
Hey man excellent article. I am starting to understand I AM ENOUGH thing. I have been repeating it since I first heard it form you but just recently it is starting to sink in. If I am enough then I can do this this and this and they will still like me, well maybe not like me but they will still be turned on by my mere presence in a way I am turned on by them no matter what they do or say. This means I can have a shit load of fun and I will still be able to pull a lot of girls. Now that is one hell of a freeing thougth. Now I am trying to learn to have fun and self amuse and be completely free from outcome since I never was because everithing I did was in function of getting laid. Now I am starting to understand that I can get laid no matter what I do just because its a nautral human need and everyone has it.

Anyway, cheers man and thanks alot!
yes mate exactly! Its takes a while to sink in, plant the thought, follow the actions and then the emotions establish themselves.

A total change in a person's congruence

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#31

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wtfjusthappened wrote:
dude


seriously


i'm becoming a raving fucking fan here okay...

what is this.. third or fourth day i apply your stuff

Here's my huge rave on applying Alexander's principles in field based on specific situations from TODAY in the club: 
)-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------(
I just can't believe these results... I just go to a venue and end up partying with LOADS OF HOT GIRLS EVERY SINGLE TIME.

It doesn't even CROSS MY MIND that it won't happen. It just happens every single time.. third or fourth time in a row now.. Even skipped going out for a few days.. no difference, it just works and girls are basically starting to allow me to do any fucking thing I want.. 

grab 2 girls and have them ride my legs both at the same time on the dance floor? why not

give me executive control over who they talk to (if anyone outside me), naturally

stay with me for 7-8 hours straight and ignore every single other guy? without a doubt

I ask them to come to my place? Of course.

I don't ask them to come to my place? They ask me to come to my place.

I touch them anywhere I want? no resistance

approach the hottest looking girls at any time and be friendly? works
be not friendly? works
be an idiot? works
tool their friends.. yeah
just love them.. works
hate them.. works
call them out on stuff.. works
grab them and throw them around..they love it
do stuff they don't like.. they love it
do stuff they like.. they love it
tell them what's up next? they agree 100%
I'm with the 2 last girls in the club and they stay with me till the end of the night even though we're surrounded by guys? yep.

They just mumble among their friends and some hive mind reply comes out.. i don't even register that shit anymore.. it's like.. This is what I say to most things now when something "logical" comes out of a girl's mouth:

me: sure *grab*drag*

as long as you have empathy... EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING IS FINE. They want you to do it emotionally. THIS IS KEY. If you know what they want you to do emotionally, you just need to get around their logical bs and you're golden.

With the positive reference experiences from 4 days of using this stuff, opening a set looks like this now: hot girl. = opened. Guys, no guys, big fat friend no big fat friend.. you treat them equally and there's NO resistance like there used to be. Everyone's on my team.

Just got to iron out a few kinks and we're there..
I still suck at closing haha

You know how fucking liberating it is to KNOW for sure what they want emotionally? I don't mean every individual woman, I mean in general... I'm finally passing by their logical mind and talking man to woman after years of trying to figure it out. When I'm wrong it just doesn't matter to me nor them. Girls are super obvious when they don't want something. general rule: Anything but an absolute no is a yes.
 
And finally, here's my best approach from the day (fyi: had approached them before and did simple chit chat, this was the second time):
2 girls sitting with 2 guys.

me: *goes up to the one who looks most in charge*
hey, are these your friends (referring to the guys)
her: our.. new friends
me: cool *grabs both girls by the hand and starts walking to the club*
girls: bye (to the guys)
girls: you're so sure of yourself
me: I know.
And I felt completely relaxed.. no freaking out.. no adrenaline rush.. no ego.. nothing.. just a breeze..

Holy fucking shit, i wasn't even in state.

what the fuck just happened-
oh, your 4th day applying something you read and you're instantly transformed?
<condescending wonka face>
Tell us more about your adventures.
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#32
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 Cool, cool. I've really been taking a lot from you lately, Alex. Over the years you've actually been the least accessible of the coaches to my style of game. I'm not sure if it's more the way your teaching is getting more distilled and simple or if it's the place I'm at going out, but who cares. 

Thanks bud.
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Swynery wrote:
 Cool, cool. I've really been taking a lot from you lately, Alex. Over the years you've actually been the least accessible of the coaches to my style of game. I'm not sure if it's more the way your teaching is getting more distilled and simple or if it's the place I'm at going out, but who cares. 

Thanks bud.
yeah mate, as it turns out, i really just solidified the idea's in the natural instinct method, and around the same time i was given access to posting on the main forum, figured out how to upload videos to youtube consistently and the IT guys got around the rebuilding www.alexattitde.com.

I will be here everyweek, RSDnation, facebook, youtube x 3 and ESPECIALLY www.alexattitude.com.

I'm really excited about, www.alexattitude.com I'm working on the adventure stotries that make knowing this method all worth the while. We do this for the stories, and these storys are a narrative of the glory. It was the stories that inspired me when I began, now its the sotries Of my glory that i want to share to inspire others. And with that inspireation, i can coach and shape that enthusiasm properly through my catalouge of systemtised content.

subscribe, and stay tuned.

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#34
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HAHA YEAH - Schwedish girls of awesomeness!!

I've meet my share of them in Byron Bay!

All you need to start a conversation with a Swedish chicks are these 3 lines that are fairly simple to remember once you done a little rehearsing:

Hey, vad heter du? Du är söt. Jag älskar dig! :))

Translation: Hey, whats your name? You look cute. I love you! Again smile of course...
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#35

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Awesome article Alex! As always... Actually this one particularly hit the spot for me.

I had just gotten back into the game after a long relationship and this was a part I was struggling on. I applied these concepts yesterday night, and I had an AMAZING results... Very eye-opening too, and I'm finding that a combination of reading + applying your stuff is really helping me internalize these concepts!
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#36
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one day I'll start a club in King's cross.
then in the following week I will be half beaten to death.
then I'll move to Helsinki and never leave town. ever again devil

loved the article. solid stuff
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#37
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Johnny wrote:
Awesome article Alex! As always... Actually this one particularly hit the spot for me.

I had just gotten back into the game after a long relationship and this was a part I was struggling on. I applied these concepts yesterday night, and I had an AMAZING results... Very eye-opening too, and I'm finding that a combination of reading + applying your stuff is really helping me internalize these concepts!

Awesome, i love it when i read the word RESULTS in repsonse to these articles, great work mate.

Alexander~
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awesome_steve wrote:
HAHA YEAH - Schwedish girls of awesomeness!!

I've meet my share of them in Byron Bay!

All you need to start a conversation with a Swedish chicks are these 3 lines that are fairly simple to remember once you done a little rehearsing:

Hey, vad heter du? Du är söt. Jag älskar dig! :))

Translation: Hey, whats your name? You look cute. I love you! Again smile of course...

haha yeah, the golden word is ALSKLING! which means sweetheart or girlfriend. Sounds cool when the girl says it as well, especially in an american accent.

Alexander~
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#39
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Hahahahahahahhaah not SVENSKA FLICKA.  It's  Svenska FlickOR.
Plural ey.
And Waffle = Våffla.

Cheers, good post.
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#40

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 hahaha love it!
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