Alexander~ RSD
I am leaving Australia forever! ...Until the End of 2012… It’s been extremely dramatic.
I’ve been working hard getting infield video in Sydney's infamous Kings Cross.
To go to Kings Cross is to put your life in danger. To try and get Infield Footage is to cheat death. Sure enough, we got some awesome shots in some hot venues. And sure enough, we had run-ins with venue security and then the Australian Police.
Suffice to say that we’re Pushing the accumulation of infield footage hard to make the hotseat something like you’ve never seen before.
But due to the courageous Police Waffle of Acousticninja99 the unit was recovered and the videos will be shown, live, at the Alex Hotseats, starting at an undisclosed location, November this year.
For an excellent example of classic Acousticninja99 waffle check out www.alexattitude.com, where a sample can be heard.
In the meantime, like always, the events are filling fast, but some Bootcamp opportunities remain.
Melbourne Friday July 20th SOLD OUT
Perth on Friday July 27th
Calgary on Friday August 3rd
Winnipeg on Friday August 10th SOLD OUT
LAS VEGAS Friday August 17th
LAS VEGAS Friday August 24th
Make summer count, email support@realsocialdynamics.com.
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Now, to the Golden Mile itself, on a topic relevant to beginners and advanced guys alike. The starting point of all interactions; what you say.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NV-GTxYeZA
To take the topic even deeper I formerly recorded a video about the “It’s Fine” bracket. The paradigm that Executive Coaches use when they’re formulating what they’re going to say to a girl during cold approach pick ups.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpD_eicW8I4
As you can see, when you’re cold approaching girls, the only way to think about ‘what you say’ is to think that it doesn’t matter what is said, and trust that what you’re saying is a large quantity of normal conversation between expression that is too extreme and too boring.
This makes the first principle of the Natural Instinct Method; Create Initiative, much easier.
See the full method here: Natural Instinct Method.
I’ve finally had the finishing touches put on www.alexattitude.com. I’ve created a system where I share my professional updates and latest content on the front page of RSDnation while concurrently posting extended in-depth articles about my RSDnation content, but in a place that allows for more personal expression and the inclusion of videos and media that is of my choice and beyond the management of Real Social Dynamics.
Check out www.alexattitude.com for an extension of this article and more examples of ‘waffle’ and what to say from the guys that I have seen to be absolutely the best at Picking up Cold Approach in the world. The article will be up by soon after the one you're reading right now.
Well, the journey goes on. I have a week in Melbourne this week to get as many final shots as I possibly can, and hopefully, without the intervention of the authorities, I’ll be able to take some of the awesome interactions all the way, without being blocked by the police.
All for the good of science, and the next evolution of the hotseat.
Stay tuned on www.alexattiude.com for all the release dates and upcoming infield video promotions, the first of me ever to be released.
Alexander~
Executive Coach
Real Social Dynamics.
Get all the latest content as it evolves...
THE BLOG www.alexattitude.com
FACEBOOK PAGE www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd
PROFILE VIDEOS www.youtube.com/alexanderhimself
VIDEO CATALOUGE www.youtube.com/rsdalexander
FREE TOUR VIDEOS www.youtube.com/alexanderfreetour
I’ve been working hard getting infield video in Sydney's infamous Kings Cross.
To go to Kings Cross is to put your life in danger. To try and get Infield Footage is to cheat death. Sure enough, we got some awesome shots in some hot venues. And sure enough, we had run-ins with venue security and then the Australian Police.
Suffice to say that we’re Pushing the accumulation of infield footage hard to make the hotseat something like you’ve never seen before.
But due to the courageous Police Waffle of Acousticninja99 the unit was recovered and the videos will be shown, live, at the Alex Hotseats, starting at an undisclosed location, November this year.
For an excellent example of classic Acousticninja99 waffle check out www.alexattitude.com, where a sample can be heard.
In the meantime, like always, the events are filling fast, but some Bootcamp opportunities remain.
Melbourne Friday July 20th SOLD OUT
Perth on Friday July 27th
Calgary on Friday August 3rd
Winnipeg on Friday August 10th SOLD OUT
LAS VEGAS Friday August 17th
LAS VEGAS Friday August 24th
Make summer count, email support@realsocialdynamics.com.
************************************************************************************************************
Now, to the Golden Mile itself, on a topic relevant to beginners and advanced guys alike. The starting point of all interactions; what you say.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NV-GTxYeZA
To take the topic even deeper I formerly recorded a video about the “It’s Fine” bracket. The paradigm that Executive Coaches use when they’re formulating what they’re going to say to a girl during cold approach pick ups.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpD_eicW8I4
As you can see, when you’re cold approaching girls, the only way to think about ‘what you say’ is to think that it doesn’t matter what is said, and trust that what you’re saying is a large quantity of normal conversation between expression that is too extreme and too boring.
This makes the first principle of the Natural Instinct Method; Create Initiative, much easier.
See the full method here: Natural Instinct Method.
I’ve finally had the finishing touches put on www.alexattitude.com. I’ve created a system where I share my professional updates and latest content on the front page of RSDnation while concurrently posting extended in-depth articles about my RSDnation content, but in a place that allows for more personal expression and the inclusion of videos and media that is of my choice and beyond the management of Real Social Dynamics.
Check out www.alexattitude.com for an extension of this article and more examples of ‘waffle’ and what to say from the guys that I have seen to be absolutely the best at Picking up Cold Approach in the world. The article will be up by soon after the one you're reading right now.
Well, the journey goes on. I have a week in Melbourne this week to get as many final shots as I possibly can, and hopefully, without the intervention of the authorities, I’ll be able to take some of the awesome interactions all the way, without being blocked by the police.
All for the good of science, and the next evolution of the hotseat.
Stay tuned on www.alexattiude.com for all the release dates and upcoming infield video promotions, the first of me ever to be released.
Alexander~
Executive Coach
Real Social Dynamics.
Get all the latest content as it evolves...
THE BLOG www.alexattitude.com
FACEBOOK PAGE www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd
PROFILE VIDEOS www.youtube.com/alexanderhimself
VIDEO CATALOUGE www.youtube.com/rsdalexander
FREE TOUR VIDEOS www.youtube.com/alexanderfreetour



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AlexV
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Join Date: 11/12/2011 | Posts: 1189
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I've applied your principles this week.
Pulled 2 girls thursday at the same time.
Partied with 3 girls Friday at the same tim (twin + their friend).
Treated them equally. How the fuck do you close one if you t reat them all equally????
For example, had 2 girls at my place, we were drinking and smoking weed, but how the fuck can I fuck one if i have them both at my place and we're just sitting there....?
Drama
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AlexV
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Tyler's work ethic changed a lot for me professionally.
nestea
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first one was really good
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Freddie
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Really nice video. I think this is something I need to work on, since my conversations can become too "flat" a lot of the time. I'll definitely try to incorporate some of the things you said here in my interactions. Good that you also provided some examples in the video of what to say!
Wafflesandsex
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Join Date: 07/16/2012 | Posts: 35
Was a mindblowing, reality entending experience on bootcamp this weekend with Alex. Highly recommended for anyone to get in and do it.
I decided to start a fresh rsdnation profile after that weekend, now I want to find the profiles for the RSD Sydney guys we met so I can buddy list them. If any of you guys see this add me, I am the guy with the busted up cheek haha
ludvig
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That´s great :)
acousticninja99-
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Join Date: 06/19/2009 | Posts: 235
A simple "Fuck yeah" or "fuck off"...love it!
for eg. "Fuck yeah Essendon" or "fuck off brisbane Lions"...
Smokin'
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Join Date: 02/24/2011 | Posts: 29
PS. Have been on à platteu in my game for quite à while, but ever since I started using the Natural Instinct method more seriously (maybe à couple of months ago) I've been noticing great improvements in my game :)
Cheers from Stockholm!
Tyler
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Alexander~
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What city are you in?
Alexander~
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PS. Have been on à platteu in my game for quite à while, but ever since I started using the Natural Instinct method more seriously (maybe à couple of months ago) I've been noticing great improvements in my game :)
Cheers from Stockholm!
Robert Paulsen
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Join Date: 05/25/2012 | Posts: 40
there's no reason why i am not enough
there's no reason to not go to your hot seat
natural instinct method ftw
dave7-
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What city are you in?
Alexander~
Alexander~
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Was a mindblowing, reality entending experience on bootcamp this weekend with Alex. Highly recommended for anyone to get in and do it.
I decided to start a fresh rsdnation profile after that weekend, now I want to find the profiles for the RSD Sydney guys we met so I can buddy list them. If any of you guys see this add me, I am the guy with the busted up cheek haha
I love your user name, get your waffle on. But not like Timf Bhraowhn.
I've added you to the secret sydney facebook group.
Go hard!
Alexander~
Achilles~
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Join Date: 07/22/2007 | Posts: 447
it has become really clear to me now that when you talk (a lot) the girls get turned on cognitively, then viscerally, than vaginally.
My waffle iron is phenomenal AFTER ive slept with them... guess caz i dont have an outcome anymore.
gotta activly make it sensational BEFORE.
Thanks mate!
AlexV
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Join Date: 11/12/2011 | Posts: 1189
seriously
i'm becoming a raving fucking fan here okay...
what is this.. third or fourth day i apply your stuff
Here's my huge rave on applying Alexander's principles in field based on specific situations from TODAY in the club:
)-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------(
I just can't believe these results... I just go to a venue and end up partying with LOADS OF HOT GIRLS EVERY SINGLE TIME.
It doesn't even CROSS MY MIND that it won't happen. It just happens every single time.. third or fourth time in a row now.. Even skipped going out for a few days.. no difference, it just works and girls are basically starting to allow me to do any fucking thing I want..
grab 2 girls and have them ride my legs both at the same time on the dance floor? why not
give me executive control over who they talk to (if anyone outside me), naturally
stay with me for 7-8 hours straight and ignore every single other guy? without a doubt
I ask them to come to my place? Of course.
I don't ask them to come to my place? They ask me to come to my place.
I touch them anywhere I want? no resistance
approach the hottest looking girls at any time and be friendly? works
be not friendly? works
be an idiot? works
tool their friends.. yeah
just love them.. works
hate them.. works
call them out on stuff.. works
grab them and throw them around..they love it
do stuff they don't like.. they love it
do stuff they like.. they love it
tell them what's up next? they agree 100%
I'm with the 2 last girls in the club and they stay with me till the end of the night even though we're surrounded by guys? yep.
They just mumble among their friends and some hive mind reply comes out.. i don't even register that shit anymore.. it's like.. This is what I say to most things now when something "logical" comes out of a girl's mouth:
me: sure *grab*drag*
as long as you have empathy... EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING IS FINE. They want you to do it emotionally. THIS IS KEY. If you know what they want you to do emotionally, you just need to get around their logical bs and you're golden.
With the positive reference experiences from 4 days of using this stuff, opening a set looks like this now: hot girl. = opened. Guys, no guys, big fat friend no big fat friend.. you treat them equally and there's NO resistance like there used to be. Everyone's on my team.
Just got to iron out a few kinks and we're there..
I still suck at closing haha
You know how fucking liberating it is to KNOW for sure what they want emotionally? I don't mean every individual woman, I mean in general... I'm finally passing by their logical mind and talking man to woman after years of trying to figure it out. When I'm wrong it just doesn't matter to me nor them. Girls are super obvious when they don't want something. general rule: Anything but an absolute no is a yes.
And finally, here's my best approach from the day (fyi: had approached them before and did simple chit chat, this was the second time):
2 girls sitting with 2 guys.
me: *goes up to the one who looks most in charge*
hey, are these your friends (referring to the guys)
her: our.. new friends
me: cool *grabs both girls by the hand and starts walking to the club*
girls: bye (to the guys)
girls: you're so sure of yourself
me: I know.
And I felt completely relaxed.. no freaking out.. no adrenaline rush.. no ego.. nothing.. just a breeze..
Holy fucking shit, i wasn't even in state.
what the fuck just happened-
Mountaineer-~
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Join Date: 01/07/2011 | Posts: 283
keep up recommending books and other contents
Count_
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Join Date: 04/14/2012 | Posts: 111
Anyway, cheers man and thanks alot!
Alexander~
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Join Date: 05/15/2007 | Posts: 2939
Anyway, cheers man and thanks alot!
A total change in a person's congruence
Alexander~
subx
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Join Date: 09/18/2008 | Posts: 1227
seriously
i'm becoming a raving fucking fan here okay...
what is this.. third or fourth day i apply your stuff
Here's my huge rave on applying Alexander's principles in field based on specific situations from TODAY in the club:
)-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------(
I just can't believe these results... I just go to a venue and end up partying with LOADS OF HOT GIRLS EVERY SINGLE TIME.
It doesn't even CROSS MY MIND that it won't happen. It just happens every single time.. third or fourth time in a row now.. Even skipped going out for a few days.. no difference, it just works and girls are basically starting to allow me to do any fucking thing I want..
grab 2 girls and have them ride my legs both at the same time on the dance floor? why not
give me executive control over who they talk to (if anyone outside me), naturally
stay with me for 7-8 hours straight and ignore every single other guy? without a doubt
I ask them to come to my place? Of course.
I don't ask them to come to my place? They ask me to come to my place.
I touch them anywhere I want? no resistance
approach the hottest looking girls at any time and be friendly? works
be not friendly? works
be an idiot? works
tool their friends.. yeah
just love them.. works
hate them.. works
call them out on stuff.. works
grab them and throw them around..they love it
do stuff they don't like.. they love it
do stuff they like.. they love it
tell them what's up next? they agree 100%
I'm with the 2 last girls in the club and they stay with me till the end of the night even though we're surrounded by guys? yep.
They just mumble among their friends and some hive mind reply comes out.. i don't even register that shit anymore.. it's like.. This is what I say to most things now when something "logical" comes out of a girl's mouth:
me: sure *grab*drag*
as long as you have empathy... EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING IS FINE. They want you to do it emotionally. THIS IS KEY. If you know what they want you to do emotionally, you just need to get around their logical bs and you're golden.
With the positive reference experiences from 4 days of using this stuff, opening a set looks like this now: hot girl. = opened. Guys, no guys, big fat friend no big fat friend.. you treat them equally and there's NO resistance like there used to be. Everyone's on my team.
Just got to iron out a few kinks and we're there..
I still suck at closing haha
You know how fucking liberating it is to KNOW for sure what they want emotionally? I don't mean every individual woman, I mean in general... I'm finally passing by their logical mind and talking man to woman after years of trying to figure it out. When I'm wrong it just doesn't matter to me nor them. Girls are super obvious when they don't want something. general rule: Anything but an absolute no is a yes.
And finally, here's my best approach from the day (fyi: had approached them before and did simple chit chat, this was the second time):
2 girls sitting with 2 guys.
me: *goes up to the one who looks most in charge*
hey, are these your friends (referring to the guys)
her: our.. new friends
me: cool *grabs both girls by the hand and starts walking to the club*
girls: bye (to the guys)
girls: you're so sure of yourself
me: I know.
And I felt completely relaxed.. no freaking out.. no adrenaline rush.. no ego.. nothing.. just a breeze..
Holy fucking shit, i wasn't even in state.
what the fuck just happened-
<condescending wonka face>
Tell us more about your adventures.
Swynery
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Join Date: 12/25/2009 | Posts: 166
Thanks bud.
Alexander~
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Join Date: 05/15/2007 | Posts: 2939
Thanks bud.
I will be here everyweek, RSDnation, facebook, youtube x 3 and ESPECIALLY www.alexattitude.com.
I'm really excited about, www.alexattitude.com I'm working on the adventure stotries that make knowing this method all worth the while. We do this for the stories, and these storys are a narrative of the glory. It was the stories that inspired me when I began, now its the sotries Of my glory that i want to share to inspire others. And with that inspireation, i can coach and shape that enthusiasm properly through my catalouge of systemtised content.
subscribe, and stay tuned.
Alexander~
awesome_steve
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Join Date: 09/17/2009 | Posts: 27
I've meet my share of them in Byron Bay!
All you need to start a conversation with a Swedish chicks are these 3 lines that are fairly simple to remember once you done a little rehearsing:
Hey, vad heter du? Du är söt. Jag älskar dig! :))
Translation: Hey, whats your name? You look cute. I love you! Again smile of course...
Johnny
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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 52
I had just gotten back into the game after a long relationship and this was a part I was struggling on. I applied these concepts yesterday night, and I had an AMAZING results... Very eye-opening too, and I'm finding that a combination of reading + applying your stuff is really helping me internalize these concepts!
Summit God~
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Join Date: 09/18/2009 | Posts: 835
then in the following week I will be half beaten to death.
then I'll move to Helsinki and never leave town. ever again
loved the article. solid stuff
Alexander~
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Join Date: 05/15/2007 | Posts: 2939
I had just gotten back into the game after a long relationship and this was a part I was struggling on. I applied these concepts yesterday night, and I had an AMAZING results... Very eye-opening too, and I'm finding that a combination of reading + applying your stuff is really helping me internalize these concepts!
Alexander~
Alexander~
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Join Date: 05/15/2007 | Posts: 2939
I've meet my share of them in Byron Bay!
All you need to start a conversation with a Swedish chicks are these 3 lines that are fairly simple to remember once you done a little rehearsing:
Hey, vad heter du? Du är söt. Jag älskar dig! :))
Translation: Hey, whats your name? You look cute. I love you! Again smile of course...
Alexander~
Sheen
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Join Date: 06/16/2008 | Posts: 500
Plural ey.
And Waffle = Våffla.
Cheers, good post.
mikiliniz9
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Join Date: 12/22/2012 | Posts: 31