Hey team, Dzratvuyte (Russian for hello, I think Cyrillic is cool). I’m going to the Communist bloc soon.

Just checking in from the mighty banking nation of Switzerland to touch on a subject that is of massive importance to all the guys out there striving to make the most of their nights out: an article that is of importance to chodes, who want to be more than just chodes. Is that you?

This particular point is one that warrants a much deeper explanation, however it’s something that I need to articulate to the RSDnation community so I get internal game cogs spinning in graceful synchronization as soon as possible.



There will be a time and place where it is fully elaborated and published, but I’ll put it out there now for you to read, mull, digest, sleep on and allow to filter through to your behavior, then soon enough be telling your friend how you scored a hot girl.

And to be honest, sometimes you can brag -- if the girl was previously out of your league or she was just a bang-up stunner. You can do it. It’s OK. We say so.

Personally I had the ‘Relaxed Arousal’ epiphany about nine months ago, but I needed to be 100% sure that it works for me, and I needed to be 1000% sure that it works for students before it goes ‘live’ for you to get better.


Students in Alex~ Daygame Action in Geneva

The basic point is lifted from something that Tyler touched on in the Blueprint but that I think a lot of students still miss, costing them very straightforward anxiety elimination in the pickup field.

The importance of being so relaxed… and so chilled-out and at ease within yourself and within your environment that you become aroused is something that only really hit home for me since I started watching myself on infield video. At that point it became clear that ‘pumped-up’ was not the way to go about feeling good, but rather the ‘relaxation’ that others have called ‘letting go’ is the key to the right emotional state that will make you attractive.

So in simplest terms, walk into club (or underage discotheque) and the priority is relaxation. Then, as you breathe easy, drink and shoot the shit, notice as your arousal level builds up the right way.

Before you know it you’re in a good mood – or state – or nimbus – or beasting – or embering – or in the zone – or present – or whatever – or in love, that things just start to work.


Geneva by Day

You have fun, express your range of emotions instinctively, ladies become aroused and you’re picking up like Tyler. Easy.

So enjoy the video and the scenery, enjoy the interjection of a young German fan and get out there and relax.

Peace playa,

Alexander~