Hello (to any) ladies (on RSDNation), does your man look like Brad? No? Could he look like Brad? Yes. If he stopped using wanker-scented body wash and started rubbing up against brad, he could smell like he’s Brad…



During my recent stint in Canada I-slash-we were pretty much obsessed with this commercial…

…one sec, I can’t fucking write due to turbulence. Fuck you to Sydney’s blue mountains and atmospheric pressure fluctuations…

…back to Canada. Yeah, I even had a student who looked and sounded exactly like the stud in the commercial, much to my amusement and his progresses and successes.

But, to the point:



The two hour rule is one of the best practical innovations ever in game. I invented it, so I think it’s pretty good, but the applied results have been staggering.

The idea of having good natural instincts game is to hit a state of such relaxation that you unstifle, start to communicate with your natural ‘attract-women blueprint’ and start to express yourself using a wide array of emotions serving to arouse people around you instinctually.

The opposite of you arousing other people is you reacting to them -- and they arouse you. This is what you would call being anxious.

So what you need to do is implement actions that will kill all anxiety in social situations and be less anxious relative to those around you. The two hour rule does that.

The most prominent anxiety comes from concern with impression-making and defense, and just general approach anxiety. By discounting the entire first two hours of your night, you don’t stress (anxiety) about whether or not you make a good impression, which leads you in the opposite emotional direction: namely relaxation and fun.

Also, have awareness over the two hour rule approach compared to other chode guy approaches. Usually average guys don’t approach until two hours into the night, once they’re drunk. This makes them miscalibrated and sloppy. Also the girls can tell that they’re getting their confidence from what they drink, not from who they are. Also, boozing makes the average guy feel drowsy and low, further contrasting with you as a positive and social dude with abundance giving you the pick up advantage.

You spend the first two hours unwinding, then relaxing, then becoming aroused. Relaxed arousal!

In that first two hours, meet people without expectation so you can do warm approaches later, rather than cold approaches. Warm approaching is one of the most effective meeting methods in pick up. And it also creates clear opportunities for girls to approach you because they already know you.

In that first two hours you can develop a great social momentum and contextual confidence in the bar, as you walk around chatting and unwinding. With each interaction you ping with the social matrix around you, become beautifully calibrated and hit a great state.

But it all starts with dropping the expectations in the first two hours and just having fun.

In conclusion:
- Nothing counts in the first two hours
- Use the time to unwind and hit relaxation (state) then arousal
- Bounce around and create social abundance and momentum
- Use the time to calibrate to the venue
- Eclipse chodes by playing the time frames better, building momentum while they lose it
- Never risk losing state, mood or momentum
- Keep in mind that it’s unlikely that you’re going to pull until closer towards the end of the night than the start of the night
- The first two hours should be detached from pick up and the stress of approaching with outcome dependence
- Use the time to focus on enjoying yourself with your friends or wings, to offer value later

In understanding all of that, and how it will help you pick up, it will boost your self-trust (self-esteem) massively. Which is also instantly communicated in the way you project yourself.

Enjoy your first two hours: no pressure, have fun.

Alexander~