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Australian Bootcamps have been very busy this winter! There are two sold out Bootcamps, BUT two more bootcamps with seats remaining in Sydney and Perth.

Hear what Tyler has to say on the matter here:



Sydney Bootcamp: Friday 6th July.

Perth Bootcamp: Friday 27th July.

THEN CANADA -→ THEN LAS VEGAS FOR RSD WORLD SUMMIT BOOTCAMPS!

Las Vegas Summit Bootcamp: Friday 16th August.

Las Vegas Summit Bootcamp: Friday 23rd August.

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This past week I took the time to sit down and learn how to type properly. I was actually a pretty fast typist beforehand, going along at 50-60 words a minute. However, I had learnt all the wrong habits so I constantly made mistakes and always had to look at the keys to figure out where to put my hands. Now, I can touch type – type with the right fingers without looking at the keyboard – it’s just now, according to Mavis Beacon I’m only managing about 11 words a minute. Fuck.

However the learning of the typing eventually had to be confronted! So now, forever more I can practise the right keys until I can type like one of those transcriber people in the court rooms.

Point is, this week you get verbal delivery from an extra long video released on the same day it was filmed. I bring to you the very latest newbie insights from my latest era of infield video timez!



So there you have it. I have to go off and get reacquainted with good old Mavis Beacon and her fucking chameleon game.

Plenty more infield glory to be recorded this week in Brisbane and in the exotic spaces of Singapore!

Newbie questions below please.

Alexander~
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#1
babylonAD

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 cool video dude
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#2
dcampo3

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Alex is right.. every time i start doing a game which is out of my confort zone.. its like you start from 0. But you just gotta keep at it. I experience this today.. doing game at the supermarket by myself. It feels like shit.. and you really wish stuff would just happen. Tomorrow.. ill go again.. and keep at it.. and actually make the approach.
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Ryan2

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Hey Alex, when are you teaching your hot seat in Toronto?

Cheers bro!
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Jmate

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MAN I wish I could afford the brisbane bootcamp, ARRGHHHHHHHH. Next time... next time...

Coming from a computer nerd, keep at it, soon you'll be typing like a god.
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FlaiR_pua

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 Awesome man! Your videos are dope!
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 Good stuff mate! Stick to that "Massive Beaver" typing program n you'll get there mate..
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ChinaBoy~

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 Gotta admit that with the recent tsunami of vids and articles here I don't really read/watch them....But I always take time to read/watch your stuff :)
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#8

Thoma5

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The pic is hilarious.
Since you're back to zero, you should learn dvorak :) (nerd style)

You need just a few hours to get back to a decent speed. (50wpm or so).
Do 10 minutes a day, for a month or so. You will be fast. That's well invested.

Or try dragon naturall speaking. (I prefer typing most of the time, both are really useful).
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Stonefish

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Hey Alex,

Thanks, some great tips for everyone

I love the "Natural Instincts Method" it makes for a great vibe & great night out

Question - Natural Instincts Method - Timeline
Say you meet a girl you like at 10pm you spend 30 minutes talking to her and her group, the timeline may look something like this...

First 2 minutes - you introduce yourself, shake-hands, talk to her & her friends
After 5 minutes - you see if she has a boyfriend - is that your boyfriend point at a creepy guy
After 10 minutes - you get her phone number
Around 25 minutes - you get a sense that the girl likes you, her friends are trying to match make you - you pick her up & spin her around
Around 30 minutes - the girl may want to go dance or whatever

At this point...
Would you have been better off doing a takeaway? Before she want's to dance
Would you try and keep the encounter going and totally cement yourself in with her
Or wander off, let her talk to a few chodes for 30 minutes and than re-open her?
If the club is closing at 3am, would you try to bounce her to another club at say 1 or 2pm?

I suppose what I'm asking is how does a 10pm set play out over the period of a night to 3am?

thanks
Danny
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#10
Alexander~

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yep, getting plenty of practise and i've got dragon with our seminar mics, its a great comination!

Alexander~
Thoma5 wrote:
The pic is hilarious.
Since you're back to zero, you should learn dvorak :) (nerd style)

You need just a few hours to get back to a decent speed. (50wpm or so).
Do 10 minutes a day, for a month or so. You will be fast. That's well invested.

Or try dragon naturall speaking. (I prefer typing most of the time, both are really useful).

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Tyler

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Nice shot!!  Brisbane looks a lot cooler than I'd imagined from the sarcastic "bris-vegas" label.  Looks like a sweet spot.

Great content as always.

Tyler
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 Alexander is probably one of the greatest PUAs ever...he pulls like a machine..
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 Btw alex, how do you filter girls for pulls? i dont want to spend my time in a set which cannot be pulled, is there a way u screen quickly?
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i think it has the best bootcamp venue in the world, a place called fridays.

But to call it Bris-Vegas is indeed an insult in Las Vegas.

Had some awesome times there this year.

Alexander~
Tyler wrote:
Nice shot!!  Brisbane looks a lot cooler than I'd imagined from the sarcastic "bris-vegas" label.  Looks like a sweet spot.

Great content as always.

Tyler
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Bossco

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Hi Alex,
Will you be doing any bootcamps in Melbourne, Australia later in the year?
Thanks
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 Thank you for the video Alex. :)

What itches me is that you seem to look at all the interaction very much from the perspective of the outcome, like constantly asking "does this help me getting results later on at least?".
Like when you have a fun interaction with an unavailable girl to consider her girlfriends or other girls in the club seeing this interaction or simply to be amused but not for the enjoyment of being amused but as a tool that will increase your chances for other interactions later in the night.

I wrote "seems to" because you obviously have to break down the social dynamics, what is communicated and what this will lead to. That`s your job, you made it your job. I understand that.
It`s just a spontaneous impression and my perception, not the truth :)

Still, my feeling when I listen to you is that to some degree there is a belief in play:  
Having fun communicating on itself is not valuable enough. Only as a means to get results is it worth the time.

Maybe the idea I get about how you perceive things while being in the situation is not correct. 
This however is not the point I wand to make.
I think mainly about what the recipients will make of it, that the result for many or some will be that they will be adding another layer ontop of their PU artist ego so it looks more and more like they were in the moment, independent from outcome, bringing the party etc. while at the core there is still the ego that seeks value in getting specific results (like the PU batting average) only more and more intricately fogged.

I don`t think that you are promoting this. And I don`t know if this is to any degree the case for you or if you simply do your job. But I figure at least to some people it might come across like that.

For me personally I must say I do have goals, too. I do also consider that when I socialize with people who do not qualify for the kind of relationship that is most valuable for me, that this increases the chances of ultimately experiencing what I would like to experience –be it by growing the social circle, be it by becoming more used to communicating and building confidence and general well-being (because if you have friends you are more happy).
But for me it is incredibly important that while I am in a conversation that I am really there and enjoying it, instead of pretending (to myself and others).
I suspect there is a number of people who might still play this PU game like it was a computer game, pushing the right buttons. Not as crude as it was a few years back (dancing monkey) but still pushing buttons.
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 Fridays on a friday babeh! I can see it calling me in the background...
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 Will you be coming to Austin for hot seat?

Btw, it's SUMMER in the U.S., America is number one. 
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Frenzy game uh oh... things are really getting serious. Heh.. nice video man.
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Sweet vid Alex, when you gonna be in London?
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 Haha, learning to type fucking sucks.  My mom made me take typing class in summer school when I was like 13 or 14, it was pure misery!  
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Great video. Tons of tips that apply to me now that I'm hitting the bars after bootcamp. I pulled a 6 foot tall hottie to my apartment last weekend using the game you taught me 100%, she even went for the makeout on me in the bar, I fumbled it a bit after it was going really well but we're texting back and forth to meet up again. Not a bad start to my post-Alex bootcamp going out times.

I can tell I'll be re-watching this video a few times and alot of it hit home, especially "acknowledgment" and the bits about group logistics, how to screen for boyfriends and the Facebook social circle building idea. It all fits perfectly with your style of game, which is awesome. Keep doing these weekly videos, they're great.
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solid!
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 do ROSES really smell like POO?
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 Alex are you leaving RSD soon?
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Alex Hot Seat Swag
super video alex.
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A man needs to be committed to the greater good. For me:getting my dick sucked in the van.
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 When are you going to be in Toronto, Canada?
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good stuff
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I love your shit man, i am at your london hotseat when you visit. What are a few things you say or do to get the girl back to your hotel from club? (my hotel is very close to the venues btw.) I think i herd you say about taking responsability off the girl so she doesnt feel slutty? i can get good attraction i just wana close the deal alot, starting 3 week challenge in few weeks.
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I used this yesterday with a girl and didnt freak out when things didnt go my way. Thanks Alex!
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I'm totally there for Gold Coast (or bris) hot seat!!!
Yeaaaaa!!!
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About bootcamps, how do you handle hard case newbies...ie a guy who can approach and push like an intermediate but has the results of a 15 year old virgin?
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 what do you mean by stay in the set up to four times?  How do you stay in up to four times.  After four times of her telling you to fuck off?  Going back?  what do you mean?

When will you be in Miami for Your Hot Seat and bootcamp?
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 Are you coming to brazil for a hot seat?
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