Alexander~ RSD

CHECK OUT MY UPCOMING AUSTRALIAN AND EUROPEAN EVENTS!

ALEXANDER HOTSEATS BEFORE SUMMER!

Perth Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: June 1st
Melbourne Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: June 8th
Sydney Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: June 15th
Perth Bootcamp: June 22nd
Geneva Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: June 29th
HELSINKI Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: July 6th
Stockholm Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: July 13th

Hello mates! Had an awesome couple of days off last weekend in Chicago with Captain Redbeard (Tyler), Brad, Todd and the local crews. It was freaken awesome to have a couple of days off to recuperate after some intense Canadian times complete with insomnia and acute stress.



BUT I NEED YOUR HELP FOR A COUPLE OF DIFFERENT THIGNS!!!!!

CHECK OUT MY VIDEO AND THEN SEE THE POSITIONS AVAILABLE BELOW… AND APPLY WITHIN.

1. I want someone who’s competent with Photoshop to help me finish the 201X video… I want it out so I can get to publish the stories that are ready and waiting. Now Im putting the finishing pieces together. I need someone I can talk to online who can help me organize some still files.

Email me: alexander@realsocialdynamics.com

2. I NEED FULLY FLEDGED ASSISSTANTS. I Have had quite a few applications all asking what the duty would entail. In short it is the following things: I need you to travel with me for several months helping with media production and management. I’m organized with equipment and know how; I need others to assist me in the use of it. See my ‘where ill be next’ schedule below and check out where I will be. I need someone who can travel with me for 5-6 weeks. You have to pay for your own travel, you have to pay for your own accommodation. BUT you will get as many Bootcamps as you can attend, as many hotseats as you can attend and enough nights infield working with me that you’ll leave no stone unturned in your pursuit for game greatness.

The guys who have travelled with me in the past have become the BEST in the world, and are the guys who are coming with me on professional grade holiday and who I count as my closest friends. Its intense, but the best program in the game you could possibly take.

But think, not what I can do for you, but what you can do for me. There are dozens of people applying for the position to do Australian trips and euro trips with me, but all contact me telling me what I CAN DO FOR THEM! Durr, tell me what you can do for me… basically just be reliable and be there for several weeks over several cities and you’re in.

If you can make my life easier email me alexander@realsocialdynamics.com and tell me that you can go to my ‘where I’ll be next cities’. Prepare to immerse yourself in personal transformation and SCANDINAVIAN GLORY!

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Had an awesome review come through from my recent Canadian Events… Check it out!

I first heard of Mr.Alex in the summer of 2008. RSD had a freetour event scheduled in my city with Jeffy. At the last minute Jeffy was unable to make it and they said some guy named Alex from Australia would take over, and that he was the NEXT BIG THING. I was a bit disappointed because Jeffy was well known in the community, but hearing Alex speak was compelling, and I followed his blog closely, reading every article and watching every educational and inspiring video.

As useful as Alex's content was back then I started to have a hard time with the idea of "You are enough" along with some of his other outlooks about Natural Game. Part of it was because they were so opposite to what we are told by social conditioning, but it was also because Alex was making new realizations himself as his journey unfolded. He was working on a puzzle and was just getting the corner and edge pieces together. So sometimes his communication of his findings were hard to understand and internalize. I must admit that in my ignorant unenlightened state I would troll Alex from time to time .

So when I heard Alex had finished his Hot Seat in 2012 and was ready to present his findings to the world, I was NOT GOING TO MISS IT. I especially wanted to see it to compare Alex's style of game to Tyler and Julien's which appears in Hot Seat 2 (which I saw 3 times).

I saw Alex's Hot Seat twice in early May 2013, in Montreal and Toronto. It is Absolutely Fantastic. You definitely get WAY MORE VALUE than the price it cost.
The footage that Alex shows you is Mind Blowing but in a different way than Hot Seat 2. Alex shows you several interactions with girls that actually LEAD TO SEX but he pulled it off in a CHILLED, EFFICIENT, NO TRY HARD way. You learn that you do not need to be a dancing entertaining monkey for the whole interaction to get the girl. It really is liberating to see. The infield footage does a BEAUTIFUL job
demonstrating Alex's paradigm to getting gorgeous girls from cold approach. It fully cements his principles and mindsets in your brain. Alex even gives you 4 comprehensive videos to watch Before and After attending the hot seat so that you get the "There's No Reason Why I'm Not Enough" software right into you DNA!!

I HIGHLY recommend and encourage ANYONE who wants more interactions to be CONSUMMATED to attend Alex's Hot Seat.

You can clearly see how much blood, sweat, and tears Alex put in to getting this event together. The man has traveled the world for the last 5+ years, going to a different city and country each week, doing cold approach, unlocking the secrets to getting a girl's panties off, and sharing it with us.

A Big Thank You Alex, from a former sometimes troll.

Great summary of the event and really glad to have had a huge influence on this student and hundreds more like him! ENJOY THE RESULTS!
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I’ve set out on the homeland tours of Australia. I just recorded the first free tour last night in Brisbane and it went beautifully! Can’t wait to release plenty more great work before I head off on my European summer holiday!

For now here are some of the key video blogs I’ve ever released that you might have missed over the years! each just a couple of minutes with powerful concise points!







Thanks everyone and be in touch with the latest at www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD

Alexander~

CHECK OUT MY UPCOMING AUSTRALIAN AND EUROPEAN EVENTS!

ALEXANDER HOTSEATS BEFORE SUMMER!

Perth Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: June 1st
Melbourne Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: June 8th
Sydney Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: June 15th
Perth Bootcamp: June 22nd
Geneva Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: June 29th
HELSINKI Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: July 6th
Stockholm Hotseat/Bootcamp/Freetour: July 13th

Hello mates! Had an awesome couple of days off last weekend in Chicago with Captain Redbeard (Tyler), Brad, Todd and the local crews. It was freaken awesome to have a couple of days off to recuperate after some intense Canadian times complete with insomnia and acute stress.



BUT I NEED YOUR HELP FOR A COUPLE OF DIFFERENT THIGNS!!!!!

CHECK OUT MY VIDEO AND THEN SEE THE POSITIONS AVAILABLE BELOW… AND APPLY WITHIN.

1. I want someone who’s competent with Photoshop to help me finish the 201X video… I want it out so I can get to publish the stories that are ready and waiting. Now Im putting the finishing pieces together. I need someone I can talk to online who can help me organize some still files.

Email me: alexander@realsocialdynamics.com

2. I NEED FULLY FLEDGED ASSISSTANTS. I Have had quite a few applications all asking what the duty would entail. In short it is the following things: I need you to travel with me for several months helping with media production and management. I’m organized with equipment and know how; I need others to assist me in the use of it. See my ‘where ill be next’ schedule below and check out where I will be. I need someone who can travel with me for 5-6 weeks. You have to pay for your own travel, you have to pay for your own accommodation. BUT you will get as many Bootcamps as you can attend, as many hotseats as you can attend and enough nights infield working with me that you’ll leave no stone unturned in your pursuit for game greatness.

The guys who have travelled with me in the past have become the BEST in the world, and are the guys who are coming with me on professional grade holiday and who I count as my closest friends. Its intense, but the best program in the game you could possibly take.

But think, not what I can do for you, but what you can do for me. There are dozens of people applying for the position to do Australian trips and euro trips with me, but all contact me telling me what I CAN DO FOR THEM! Durr, tell me what you can do for me… basically just be reliable and be there for several weeks over several cities and you’re in.

If you can make my life easier email me alexander@realsocialdynamics.com and tell me that you can go to my ‘where I’ll be next cities’. Prepare to immerse yourself in personal transformation and SCANDINAVIAN GLORY!

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Had an awesome review come through from my recent Canadian Events… Check it out!

I first heard of Mr.Alex in the summer of 2008. RSD had a freetour event scheduled in my city with Jeffy. At the last minute Jeffy was unable to make it and they said some guy named Alex from Australia would take over, and that he was the NEXT BIG THING. I was a bit disappointed because Jeffy was well known in the community, but hearing Alex speak was compelling, and I followed his blog closely, reading every article and watching every educational and inspiring video.

As useful as Alex's content was back then I started to have a hard time with the idea of "You are enough" along with some of his other outlooks about Natural Game. Part of it was because they were so opposite to what we are told by social conditioning, but it was also because Alex was making new realizations himself as his journey unfolded. He was working on a puzzle and was just getting the corner and edge pieces together. So sometimes his communication of his findings were hard to understand and internalize. I must admit that in my ignorant unenlightened state I would troll Alex from time to time .

So when I heard Alex had finished his Hot Seat in 2012 and was ready to present his findings to the world, I was NOT GOING TO MISS IT. I especially wanted to see it to compare Alex's style of game to Tyler and Julien's which appears in Hot Seat 2 (which I saw 3 times).

I saw Alex's Hot Seat twice in early May 2013, in Montreal and Toronto. It is Absolutely Fantastic. You definitely get WAY MORE VALUE than the price it cost.
The footage that Alex shows you is Mind Blowing but in a different way than Hot Seat 2. Alex shows you several interactions with girls that actually LEAD TO SEX but he pulled it off in a CHILLED, EFFICIENT, NO TRY HARD way. You learn that you do not need to be a dancing entertaining monkey for the whole interaction to get the girl. It really is liberating to see. The infield footage does a BEAUTIFUL job
demonstrating Alex's paradigm to getting gorgeous girls from cold approach. It fully cements his principles and mindsets in your brain. Alex even gives you 4 comprehensive videos to watch Before and After attending the hot seat so that you get the "There's No Reason Why I'm Not Enough" software right into you DNA!!

I HIGHLY recommend and encourage ANYONE who wants more interactions to be CONSUMMATED to attend Alex's Hot Seat.

You can clearly see how much blood, sweat, and tears Alex put in to getting this event together. The man has traveled the world for the last 5+ years, going to a different city and country each week, doing cold approach, unlocking the secrets to getting a girl's panties off, and sharing it with us.

A Big Thank You Alex, from a former sometimes troll.

Great summary of the event and really glad to have had a huge influence on this student and hundreds more like him! ENJOY THE RESULTS!
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I’ve set out on the homeland tours of Australia. I just recorded the first free tour last night in Brisbane and it went beautifully! Can’t wait to release plenty more great work before I head off on my European summer holiday!

For now here are some of the key video blogs I’ve ever released that you might have missed over the years! each just a couple of minutes with powerful concise points!







Thanks everyone and be in touch with the latest at www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD

Alexander~

 Hey everyone!

I am coming to Australia for Hotseat! Going to be incredible! Check out the dates below!

Then I’m doing the darling European cities of Geneva, Stockholm and Helsinki! I imagine its going to be a roots fest. IF YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN TO HELSINKI – ESPECIALLY IN THE SUMMER – THEN YOU HAVE NEVER LIVED. HELSINKI is easily better than any other place in the world for picking up girls. I am doing a bootcamp there that is the one you really want to sign up for, it fucking amazing.



If you want to join me on the tour make an application! I need media managers to ensure that I keep creating awesome content and sharing it with the world! It’s the guys to assist for a long time that become ABSOLUTELY the best in the game.

So email me, Alexander@realsocialdynamics.com if you can join me on the bootcamp and event dates listed below! You have no idea how epic.

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We have a delightful little video today!

I really like the topic of ‘sense of entitlement’ because it’s a concept that’s all in your head. So to master your own sense of entitlement is incredibly important to form an idea in your head that is rock solid. An idea that you can understand with ‘proof’ and an idea that holds up in your mind under real world pressure.



To summarize, its not about getting better, its realizing that you don’t need to be that good. It’s not about proving something to yourself, it’s about fulfilling a rare role that others don’t have the patience and emotional strength to fulfill.

When you start to shift your thoughts away from egotistic skill expansion it starts to take root in your emotions and show up in your actions and responses.

Of course it will take a little bit of time, but we have to start somewhere.

Enjoy!

Follow me on facebook for the updates on the 201X video and the professional grade holiday!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD

AUSTRALIANS! I AM COMING TO DO THE HOTSEATS… YOUR NATIONAL PICK UP REPRESENTATIVE IS COMING HOME!

There will be hotseats in all the major Australian cities and I want to give you guys as much as possible on these momentous occasions! I’m glad to say that most of my hotseat was HOME MADE in Australia. And cos I know that most of US Australians love a good story of debauchery I’ll be including some EPIC TALES OF GLORY – UNHEARD GLORY – at the free tours the Thursday before hand.

Here are the Hotseat dates!

May 23, 2013: Brisbane, Australia (7pm-9pm)
May 30, 2013: Perth, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 6, 2013: Melbourne, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 13, 2013: Sydney, Australia (7pm-9pm)

And register for the free tour here www.alexanderfreetour.com happening free each Thursday before the Hotseat weekend.

NEWS FLASH I AM LOOKING FOR ONE OR TWO GUYS TO INTERN WITH ME FOR THESE FOUR WEEKS. I want you to be able to travel with me for about a month and help in every aspect of the program and spend time together away from program.

If you think you can commit to a month of RSD bootcamp times email me immediately @ Alexander@realsocialdynamics.com tell me that your interested and ill send you instructions from there.

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Furthermore… I want you to know that the 201X video has to be done soon… It has to be put out into the world ASAP I want it to be done by the time I get back to Australia because otherwise it will simply never be finished. I see these videos as Milestones that mark the end of an era and open up entirely new eras.

The video will be a celebration of all RSD and a display of excessive video effects. The theme is ‘life like a movie’ words of wisdom from RSD Tim who will feature in the video as well.

Check out the videos that have gone before in this little play list that I’ve made up. Just before the launch I will make many tutorial videos how to make a similar video. Everything from music mixing to beat youtube censors, to creative techniques, to compositing and even creating 3D effects and titles. I love it as a hobby and will share all that I can.



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In this free tour I talk about the topic of logistics. While some consider logistics to be a very complicated set of dynamics its actually pretty simple. Ultimately everyone has to leave the club and everyone eventually has to go to a ‘home’ by the end of the night.

Logistically, you have en be involved in that process, either as the guest or the host. Have a place to take a crew OR be welcome to come with the group to their destinations after the club. This puts a heavy emphasis on group theory and being ready to stay awake until 5am or later.



And a few fun little anecdotes to keep the videos interesting as well!

Do you have any questions about logistics?

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD

hotseats! wooooo. www.alexanderhotseat.com

and now onto the video! wooooooo!



That was an awesome video. 

I have acheived a zen like state so I dont like to work too much in case my zen is disturbed.

What do you think about amogs?

www.facebook.com/AlexanderRsd

Hey yall! Got a video for you today all about being awesome at being terrible.

Oh yeah… go to hotseats they’re awesome. Www.alexanderhotseat.com

I for one have been a long time practitioner of being a wreck. Being a wreck puts me into a state of glee and rejoice! So, when I feel like I wreck I get excellent results with girls. All explained here.



Well, I hope you like these ideas of self destruction as much as I like living as a wreck. Sorry to confuse all you high achieving heath nuts out there… but doing things this way is just so freaken fun.

Like me on facebook.. www.facebook.com/alexanderRSD As of late I’ve been enjoying myself trolling Julien’s facebook account at any opportunity.

Alexander~

 Yo yo yo ! Here I am writing a blog. Usually I write a little update! But fuck that this time I RECORDED THE UPDATE! An extended update in Technicolor about everything I’m going and what it offers you! Look it look it!



Many interesting times afoot! Busy!

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I have a little video on how to train yourself in the game. I’m referencing my early times when I started out in the game. Dating, pulling, learning and growing. They were absolutely magical times when the results and relationships started to come frequent and fast.

In contrast I see many guys going out complacently! Obviously if you want to get better in the game you have to go out and garner experience… but the question is… how is the most effective way to do that.

I am a staunch advocate of ONLY TWO DAYS AND TWO NIGHTS A WEEK. Balancing pick-up and lifestyle concurrently. Please you see:



I had an intense reality shock at a bootcamp recently. My student told me that he quit university, stopped hanging out with his friends, NEVER CALLED GIRLS FOR DATES, quit working out and stopped everything in his life in order to become awesome at game. Needless to say this lifestyle choice had made the student one-dimensional results obsessed and the owner of an unattractive vibe.

Sure it great to have pickup, dates, women and self development a part of your life every day of your life. Life is game… and game is life; when your naturally attractive, BUT ITS NOT JUST COLD APPROACH.

All cold approach no life EQUALS NO RESULTS, FRUSTRATION LEADING TO DESPERATION...leading to who knows what. But it’s not good.

What I know to be true is that minimizing the thought about pick up is INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT TO GETTING REUSLTS and having a fresh outlook on your social world.

ABSOLUTELY expose yourself to our videos, articles, programs and seminars and then trust that the info and ideas are there inside you somewhere working for you.

To quote the great RED BEARD “Tyler” :D what you need will come to you when you need it, not before and not after. Relax and observe this awesome phenomenon working for you.

If you ever feel like game is your primary focus in life then there is a problem…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTmgYNSByKE

Strangely work ethic in this part of your life is actually not proportional to results and growth. It all comes back to the good old phrase ‘there is no reason why you’re not enough”. The mindset that you’re **ready** means you don’t seek help, that you’re already awesome, but you like tune-ups and advancements… not reparations for your soul.

Go forward, balance it out and don’t forget that dating is more effective for getting girls than cold approach.

Reaise that learning a skill is MORE important for picking up girls than the ‘skills’ of cold approach.

I’m excited for your new horizons!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd

Well well well mates! I’m back from some awesome holiday times with SEAN in New York City and Chapel Hill, North Carolina. What can I report from these two places?



New york is awesome as always. Except it was fucking freezing cold. We made a pact to only drink martinis while we were there. Which seemed like a good idea at the time, until we later realized that martinis have about 5 times as much alcohol per-serve as beers. We also did a screen test for a reality TV show about pick up coaching – which looks quite promising.

After the screening the casting lady was pretty confident about our chances of the show getting picked up, so we went out and had a shitload of martinis to celebrate. By the end of the night we were a fucking mess. You will see some evidence of us running around Time Square like smack-heads below. We think some sex happened but I can’t remember.



I also made a pact with myself to only eat buffalo wings for a week… stupid pact. I wouldn’t recommend it.

THEN we went down to Chapel Hill in North Carolina in the pursuit of Southern Belles and cheap beers.

WE FOUND CHEAP BEERS, 25 cents a fucking beer. We got very very drunk. And had an awesome time romping around in the bars down there.

SOMETHING I FAILED TO ANTICIPATE! In a place like North Carolina any gorgeous girl under the age of 25 is pretty much married! And there were some very gorgeous Southern Belles tromping around. These gorgeous Southern Belles LOOOOOOVED US and came home with us but then their lord Jesus Christ got angry with them and prevented them form having sex as it is a sin in the South. Nonetheless we pulled stunning girls back each night and had some fun little apartment parties!



It was pretty funny though, some of the average girls were literally begging us to take them home and fuck them. Average girls, you could sleep with them if you were drunk. But like we’ve always said, our prawns are not charities for aesthetically sub-standard girls.

After Sean left I had a few more days there, so I did the nice thing and hooked up with a couple of sweet-but-average, southern girls. I felt truly altruistic. My reward: unlimited ribs at the bar they worked at. Trading my prawn for food. Smart Alex.

NOW IM BACK IN CANADA! Hotseat and free tours a plenty! Come and see and get your game awesome once and for all!

April 13, 2013: Vancouver, Canada
April 20, 2013: Calgary, Canada
April 27, 2013: Winnipeg, Canada
May 4, 2013: Montreal, Canada
May 11, 2013: Toronto, Canada

Check out the free tours and Bootcamps happening those weekends as well!

THEN AUSTRALIA!

Get involved old mates… I’m coming home and bringin’ a fucken yarn or seven!

May 25, 2013: Brisbane, Australia
June 1, 2013: Perth, Australia
June 8, 2013: Melbourne, Australia
June 15, 2013: Sydney, Australia

Sign up for the Hotseat here!

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And now for the serious stuff! An extended video about the entire battle plan of the night. This one comes straight outta the New York free tour. Check it out.



Let me give you a little summary of the video.

Attraction is a function of time. And there is no reason why you’re not enough. With these two variables in place you’re all set.

Spend the first two hours going around getting to know groups and screen what you think your best option to party with that night or pull.

Once you get something good going start building physical and social rapport with the girl and her friends, keeping the primary goal in mind of making her and her friends comfortable enough to hang out with you in isolation after the bar.

Be the champion of ‘wasting time’ and ‘the set not going anywhere’. That is valuable time spent together getting the girl excited about what might happen between you and her.

If nothing quite works you can always go beastmode around closing time, being far more direct and polarizing screening quickly to find out what options you have left. Polarize but don’t forget the four times rule.

Remember that if you going to go out and pull and interaction that’s going to yield a solid phone number OR yield an insta-date getting something to eat with the girls or having an after party you have to be willing to stay up as late as 7am. On a weekend this is exactly how late girls will party when they’re having a great time.

Just go with the flow, leave with them, roll with them and have fun until its bedtime later in the night. All the time before bedtime is great way to accelerate attraction by not forcing the pull on the girl, but instead having fun with the girl and her group during the night.

One last note, a one night stand should be thought of as a bonus, not something you should ‘rightfully obtain’ if you run good game. Don’t get disheartened if you spend time with the girl and a ONS doesn’t work out, it’s usually outside a girls reality to have sex with a guy the day she met him. Don’t stress about it, build numbers and call the girls and set up a meet up!

So plan your night well and set everything up well to give yourself the best chance of hangout with, and hooking up with the hottest girls!

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Well that’s it for now from me! Hope you’re having fun in your part of the world! I am having a stack of fun here in Vancouver maple syrup land!

Speak soon!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd

Sign up for Hotseat here!

Just finished an epic week up there in Chicago. It seems that my delivery of the Hotseat is getting better and better. After the first day of the Hotseat 20% of the crowd PULLED THEIR FIRST EVER SUCCESSFUL ONE NIGHT STAND.

Further more, Bootcamp students pulling multiple girls, one girl was particularly stunning and the other Bootcamp student PULLED A THREESOME! The Natural Instinct Method for the win.

The Natural Instinct Method for results!

See it and learn it at a Hotseat near you!

Canada
April 13, 2013: Vancouver, Canada
April 20, 2013: Calgary, Canada
April 27, 2013: Winnipeg, Canada
May 4, 2013: Montreal, Canada
May 11, 2013: Toronto, Canada

Then I’m off to homeland Australia! Check out the where I’ll be next below!

SIGN UP NOW! and get started with the 11.5 hours of free bonuses.

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Well now… onto a very deep and important topic about the good old fashioned frame battle.



So there you have it, deep and thorough explanation of the frame battle as it applies within the principles of the Natural Instinct Method.

Now I’m off to finish this New York Hotseat… like 100 people in the crowd! Pretty intense! Going to blast it, then I Have a week off to romp around New York City, to romp around Chapel Hill North Carolina and make plenty of fun little videos with the one and only SEANY who came out to new York city for this reality TV show screen test. No bootcamp on next week so I’ll bring you a variety of videos and get very close to releasing the 201X video. Its professional and awesome.

“Like” www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD for the tutorials on how I make the videos and the fun stuff that we’re doing picking up girls in a couple of the coolest places in America!

Alexander~

Oh my God you wouldn’t believe where I’m at right now… Chicago, Illinois. No big deal you might say. Why? It’s the best Chicago experience ever! My student pulled a threesome on bootcamp using the NATURAL INSTINCT METHOD ftw. I’m staying in a room 50 floors up our on Navy Pier looking out at the city (see picture below) and I’m currently being rubbed by former Miss Teen Supermodel Illinois… she doesn’t do that anymore, now shes a doctor… of drugs…. I think I will take some and edit more 201X VIDEO! Hell yea. Coming to you soon, from me with love! See it first on www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD



In the meantime AMERICANS, its you’re last chance ever to see the one and only ALEXANDER HOTSEAT this weekend in NEW YORK CITY. And then the will never be another Alexander Hotseat presentation in America. Can’t wait to finish it all on the massive NYC stage.

United States
March 30, 2013: NEW YORK CITY!

(going for a little holiday in between to Raleigh North Carolina, anyone from that part of the world send me an email!)

Canada
April 13, 2013: Vancouver, Canada
April 20, 2013: Calgary, Canada
April 27, 2013: Winnipeg, Canada
May 4, 2013: Montreal, Canada
May 11, 2013: Toronto, Canada

SIGN UP NOW!  and get started with the 11.5 hours of free bonuses.

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Now onto the heavy stuff. Last week in sunny Los Angeles I had a chance to present a dedicated theory oriented talk about the latest and most advanced game ideas we’re teaching. AND something that you’ll like to hear about is a reconciliation of some Julien and Alex ideas.



http://youtu.be/UThSmNJgWck

LIKE I ALWAYS SAY! What is the first thing I taught you? That’s right: “there is no reason why you’re not enough!” The most essential of all self-help truisms.

I’m assuming that you're naturally attractive, and that is: if you spend enough time with a girl and you have value then the attraction is inevitably going to happen, like the last two people left on a desert island.

BUT WHAT IF YOU WANT THE INEVITABLE ATRACITON TO BUILD FASTER?

Then we introduce what we technically call the FIRE.

There are two types of fire, what Julien calls the ‘DRAMA’ and what I call the “Passion.”

The fire comes from boredom. You know that its just a matter of time for your arousal levels to build up and the girls to get more interested in you, so in your boredom as that time passes you self amuse with drama (negative expressions) like challenges, name calling and negs, or passion which is role plays, compliments and statements of intent.

In the mindset that “there is no reason why your not enough” you are always prepared for there to be some time in the interaction for the girl to overcome her fears and skepticism before she opens up, in your boredom you say things to make the passing of the time faster.

This FIRE dynamic is a trait of the natural, and something that you should adopt if you are in the shedding the social conditioning and coming back in line with your instincts… call it your NATURAL conditioning.

But there is a little bit of a problem with the advanced dynamic of the FIRE. It is designed to work for guys who are in congruence with self-value. And most guys learning game don’t have self-value in the context of cold approach.

If you don’t have self-value and you go to use the fire THE FIRE WILL BURN YOU.

Really you want the fire to accelerate arousal by adding extra heat to the interaction in a controlled way. You deliberately inject heat into the interaction to make the girl warm up toward you faster.

However if you have no control over the heat your teases and compliments can back fire and upset the girl. Especially if you try to replicate some of the INTENSE fire that the instructors use in field videos in Hotseat an in clips online.

Well, you will be glad to know that there are different levels of heat, and as you come more into congruence with self-value you can handle hotter and hotter temperatures.

But as you go through the personal evolution from social conditioning to self-value you will occasionally get burnt.

You will get tests, sometimes you will try to accelerate the interaction with heat faster than you should and then you can’t handle the repercussions. That’s fine, ENDURE IT, stand there like a silly person and feel sheepish.

It’s the same backfired heat and social pressure that’s going to make you stronger and more resilient to the next heated situation.

An evolved you; forged by fire.

So understand that you can use heat to speed things up, but understand that it has to be coming form the right place. You will enrich the interactions and become that much more effective at inspiring compliance from girls and then closing.

If you are in the process of developing self value then start to play with fire, not too much otherwise you might hurt yourself, but little by little build it up, until you are like some kind of social X MAN who can yield advanced dynamics whenever the need be. Just the same way instructors do.

I’m excited for you!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD

Check out the FIRE DYNAMICS in the Alexander Hotseat.