Alexander~ RSD

 Hey everyone!

I am coming to Australia for Hotseat! Going to be incredible! Check out the dates below!

Then I’m doing the darling European cities of Geneva, Stockholm and Helsinki! I imagine its going to be a roots fest. IF YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN TO HELSINKI – ESPECIALLY IN THE SUMMER – THEN YOU HAVE NEVER LIVED. HELSINKI is easily better than any other place in the world for picking up girls. I am doing a bootcamp there that is the one you really want to sign up for, it fucking amazing.



If you want to join me on the tour make an application! I need media managers to ensure that I keep creating awesome content and sharing it with the world! It’s the guys to assist for a long time that become ABSOLUTELY the best in the game.

So email me, Alexander@realsocialdynamics.com if you can join me on the bootcamp and event dates listed below! You have no idea how epic.

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We have a delightful little video today!

I really like the topic of ‘sense of entitlement’ because it’s a concept that’s all in your head. So to master your own sense of entitlement is incredibly important to form an idea in your head that is rock solid. An idea that you can understand with ‘proof’ and an idea that holds up in your mind under real world pressure.



To summarize, its not about getting better, its realizing that you don’t need to be that good. It’s not about proving something to yourself, it’s about fulfilling a rare role that others don’t have the patience and emotional strength to fulfill.

When you start to shift your thoughts away from egotistic skill expansion it starts to take root in your emotions and show up in your actions and responses.

Of course it will take a little bit of time, but we have to start somewhere.

Enjoy!

Follow me on facebook for the updates on the 201X video and the professional grade holiday!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD

AUSTRALIANS! I AM COMING TO DO THE HOTSEATS… YOUR NATIONAL PICK UP REPRESENTATIVE IS COMING HOME!

There will be hotseats in all the major Australian cities and I want to give you guys as much as possible on these momentous occasions! I’m glad to say that most of my hotseat was HOME MADE in Australia. And cos I know that most of US Australians love a good story of debauchery I’ll be including some EPIC TALES OF GLORY – UNHEARD GLORY – at the free tours the Thursday before hand.

Here are the Hotseat dates!

May 23, 2013: Brisbane, Australia (7pm-9pm)
May 30, 2013: Perth, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 6, 2013: Melbourne, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 13, 2013: Sydney, Australia (7pm-9pm)

And register for the free tour here www.alexanderfreetour.com happening free each Thursday before the Hotseat weekend.

NEWS FLASH I AM LOOKING FOR ONE OR TWO GUYS TO INTERN WITH ME FOR THESE FOUR WEEKS. I want you to be able to travel with me for about a month and help in every aspect of the program and spend time together away from program.

If you think you can commit to a month of RSD bootcamp times email me immediately @ Alexander@realsocialdynamics.com tell me that your interested and ill send you instructions from there.

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Furthermore… I want you to know that the 201X video has to be done soon… It has to be put out into the world ASAP I want it to be done by the time I get back to Australia because otherwise it will simply never be finished. I see these videos as Milestones that mark the end of an era and open up entirely new eras.

The video will be a celebration of all RSD and a display of excessive video effects. The theme is ‘life like a movie’ words of wisdom from RSD Tim who will feature in the video as well.

Check out the videos that have gone before in this little play list that I’ve made up. Just before the launch I will make many tutorial videos how to make a similar video. Everything from music mixing to beat youtube censors, to creative techniques, to compositing and even creating 3D effects and titles. I love it as a hobby and will share all that I can.



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In this free tour I talk about the topic of logistics. While some consider logistics to be a very complicated set of dynamics its actually pretty simple. Ultimately everyone has to leave the club and everyone eventually has to go to a ‘home’ by the end of the night.

Logistically, you have en be involved in that process, either as the guest or the host. Have a place to take a crew OR be welcome to come with the group to their destinations after the club. This puts a heavy emphasis on group theory and being ready to stay awake until 5am or later.



And a few fun little anecdotes to keep the videos interesting as well!

Do you have any questions about logistics?

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD

hotseats! wooooo. www.alexanderhotseat.com

and now onto the video! wooooooo!



That was an awesome video. 

I have acheived a zen like state so I dont like to work too much in case my zen is disturbed.

What do you think about amogs?

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Hey yall! Got a video for you today all about being awesome at being terrible.

Oh yeah… go to hotseats they’re awesome. Www.alexanderhotseat.com

I for one have been a long time practitioner of being a wreck. Being a wreck puts me into a state of glee and rejoice! So, when I feel like I wreck I get excellent results with girls. All explained here.



Well, I hope you like these ideas of self destruction as much as I like living as a wreck. Sorry to confuse all you high achieving heath nuts out there… but doing things this way is just so freaken fun.

Like me on facebook.. www.facebook.com/alexanderRSD As of late I’ve been enjoying myself trolling Julien’s facebook account at any opportunity.

Alexander~

 Yo yo yo ! Here I am writing a blog. Usually I write a little update! But fuck that this time I RECORDED THE UPDATE! An extended update in Technicolor about everything I’m going and what it offers you! Look it look it!



Many interesting times afoot! Busy!

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I have a little video on how to train yourself in the game. I’m referencing my early times when I started out in the game. Dating, pulling, learning and growing. They were absolutely magical times when the results and relationships started to come frequent and fast.

In contrast I see many guys going out complacently! Obviously if you want to get better in the game you have to go out and garner experience… but the question is… how is the most effective way to do that.

I am a staunch advocate of ONLY TWO DAYS AND TWO NIGHTS A WEEK. Balancing pick-up and lifestyle concurrently. Please you see:



I had an intense reality shock at a bootcamp recently. My student told me that he quit university, stopped hanging out with his friends, NEVER CALLED GIRLS FOR DATES, quit working out and stopped everything in his life in order to become awesome at game. Needless to say this lifestyle choice had made the student one-dimensional results obsessed and the owner of an unattractive vibe.

Sure it great to have pickup, dates, women and self development a part of your life every day of your life. Life is game… and game is life; when your naturally attractive, BUT ITS NOT JUST COLD APPROACH.

All cold approach no life EQUALS NO RESULTS, FRUSTRATION LEADING TO DESPERATION...leading to who knows what. But it’s not good.

What I know to be true is that minimizing the thought about pick up is INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT TO GETTING REUSLTS and having a fresh outlook on your social world.

ABSOLUTELY expose yourself to our videos, articles, programs and seminars and then trust that the info and ideas are there inside you somewhere working for you.

To quote the great RED BEARD “Tyler” :D what you need will come to you when you need it, not before and not after. Relax and observe this awesome phenomenon working for you.

If you ever feel like game is your primary focus in life then there is a problem…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTmgYNSByKE

Strangely work ethic in this part of your life is actually not proportional to results and growth. It all comes back to the good old phrase ‘there is no reason why you’re not enough”. The mindset that you’re **ready** means you don’t seek help, that you’re already awesome, but you like tune-ups and advancements… not reparations for your soul.

Go forward, balance it out and don’t forget that dating is more effective for getting girls than cold approach.

Reaise that learning a skill is MORE important for picking up girls than the ‘skills’ of cold approach.

I’m excited for your new horizons!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd

Well well well mates! I’m back from some awesome holiday times with SEAN in New York City and Chapel Hill, North Carolina. What can I report from these two places?



New york is awesome as always. Except it was fucking freezing cold. We made a pact to only drink martinis while we were there. Which seemed like a good idea at the time, until we later realized that martinis have about 5 times as much alcohol per-serve as beers. We also did a screen test for a reality TV show about pick up coaching – which looks quite promising.

After the screening the casting lady was pretty confident about our chances of the show getting picked up, so we went out and had a shitload of martinis to celebrate. By the end of the night we were a fucking mess. You will see some evidence of us running around Time Square like smack-heads below. We think some sex happened but I can’t remember.



I also made a pact with myself to only eat buffalo wings for a week… stupid pact. I wouldn’t recommend it.

THEN we went down to Chapel Hill in North Carolina in the pursuit of Southern Belles and cheap beers.

WE FOUND CHEAP BEERS, 25 cents a fucking beer. We got very very drunk. And had an awesome time romping around in the bars down there.

SOMETHING I FAILED TO ANTICIPATE! In a place like North Carolina any gorgeous girl under the age of 25 is pretty much married! And there were some very gorgeous Southern Belles tromping around. These gorgeous Southern Belles LOOOOOOVED US and came home with us but then their lord Jesus Christ got angry with them and prevented them form having sex as it is a sin in the South. Nonetheless we pulled stunning girls back each night and had some fun little apartment parties!



It was pretty funny though, some of the average girls were literally begging us to take them home and fuck them. Average girls, you could sleep with them if you were drunk. But like we’ve always said, our prawns are not charities for aesthetically sub-standard girls.

After Sean left I had a few more days there, so I did the nice thing and hooked up with a couple of sweet-but-average, southern girls. I felt truly altruistic. My reward: unlimited ribs at the bar they worked at. Trading my prawn for food. Smart Alex.

NOW IM BACK IN CANADA! Hotseat and free tours a plenty! Come and see and get your game awesome once and for all!

April 13, 2013: Vancouver, Canada
April 20, 2013: Calgary, Canada
April 27, 2013: Winnipeg, Canada
May 4, 2013: Montreal, Canada
May 11, 2013: Toronto, Canada

Check out the free tours and Bootcamps happening those weekends as well!

THEN AUSTRALIA!

Get involved old mates… I’m coming home and bringin’ a fucken yarn or seven!

May 25, 2013: Brisbane, Australia
June 1, 2013: Perth, Australia
June 8, 2013: Melbourne, Australia
June 15, 2013: Sydney, Australia

Sign up for the Hotseat here!

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And now for the serious stuff! An extended video about the entire battle plan of the night. This one comes straight outta the New York free tour. Check it out.



Let me give you a little summary of the video.

Attraction is a function of time. And there is no reason why you’re not enough. With these two variables in place you’re all set.

Spend the first two hours going around getting to know groups and screen what you think your best option to party with that night or pull.

Once you get something good going start building physical and social rapport with the girl and her friends, keeping the primary goal in mind of making her and her friends comfortable enough to hang out with you in isolation after the bar.

Be the champion of ‘wasting time’ and ‘the set not going anywhere’. That is valuable time spent together getting the girl excited about what might happen between you and her.

If nothing quite works you can always go beastmode around closing time, being far more direct and polarizing screening quickly to find out what options you have left. Polarize but don’t forget the four times rule.

Remember that if you going to go out and pull and interaction that’s going to yield a solid phone number OR yield an insta-date getting something to eat with the girls or having an after party you have to be willing to stay up as late as 7am. On a weekend this is exactly how late girls will party when they’re having a great time.

Just go with the flow, leave with them, roll with them and have fun until its bedtime later in the night. All the time before bedtime is great way to accelerate attraction by not forcing the pull on the girl, but instead having fun with the girl and her group during the night.

One last note, a one night stand should be thought of as a bonus, not something you should ‘rightfully obtain’ if you run good game. Don’t get disheartened if you spend time with the girl and a ONS doesn’t work out, it’s usually outside a girls reality to have sex with a guy the day she met him. Don’t stress about it, build numbers and call the girls and set up a meet up!

So plan your night well and set everything up well to give yourself the best chance of hangout with, and hooking up with the hottest girls!

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Well that’s it for now from me! Hope you’re having fun in your part of the world! I am having a stack of fun here in Vancouver maple syrup land!

Speak soon!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/alexanderrsd

Sign up for Hotseat here!

Just finished an epic week up there in Chicago. It seems that my delivery of the Hotseat is getting better and better. After the first day of the Hotseat 20% of the crowd PULLED THEIR FIRST EVER SUCCESSFUL ONE NIGHT STAND.

Further more, Bootcamp students pulling multiple girls, one girl was particularly stunning and the other Bootcamp student PULLED A THREESOME! The Natural Instinct Method for the win.

The Natural Instinct Method for results!

See it and learn it at a Hotseat near you!

Canada
April 13, 2013: Vancouver, Canada
April 20, 2013: Calgary, Canada
April 27, 2013: Winnipeg, Canada
May 4, 2013: Montreal, Canada
May 11, 2013: Toronto, Canada

Then I’m off to homeland Australia! Check out the where I’ll be next below!

SIGN UP NOW! and get started with the 11.5 hours of free bonuses.

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Well now… onto a very deep and important topic about the good old fashioned frame battle.



So there you have it, deep and thorough explanation of the frame battle as it applies within the principles of the Natural Instinct Method.

Now I’m off to finish this New York Hotseat… like 100 people in the crowd! Pretty intense! Going to blast it, then I Have a week off to romp around New York City, to romp around Chapel Hill North Carolina and make plenty of fun little videos with the one and only SEANY who came out to new York city for this reality TV show screen test. No bootcamp on next week so I’ll bring you a variety of videos and get very close to releasing the 201X video. Its professional and awesome.

“Like” www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD for the tutorials on how I make the videos and the fun stuff that we’re doing picking up girls in a couple of the coolest places in America!

Alexander~

Oh my God you wouldn’t believe where I’m at right now… Chicago, Illinois. No big deal you might say. Why? It’s the best Chicago experience ever! My student pulled a threesome on bootcamp using the NATURAL INSTINCT METHOD ftw. I’m staying in a room 50 floors up our on Navy Pier looking out at the city (see picture below) and I’m currently being rubbed by former Miss Teen Supermodel Illinois… she doesn’t do that anymore, now shes a doctor… of drugs…. I think I will take some and edit more 201X VIDEO! Hell yea. Coming to you soon, from me with love! See it first on www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD



In the meantime AMERICANS, its you’re last chance ever to see the one and only ALEXANDER HOTSEAT this weekend in NEW YORK CITY. And then the will never be another Alexander Hotseat presentation in America. Can’t wait to finish it all on the massive NYC stage.

United States
March 30, 2013: NEW YORK CITY!

(going for a little holiday in between to Raleigh North Carolina, anyone from that part of the world send me an email!)

Canada
April 13, 2013: Vancouver, Canada
April 20, 2013: Calgary, Canada
April 27, 2013: Winnipeg, Canada
May 4, 2013: Montreal, Canada
May 11, 2013: Toronto, Canada

SIGN UP NOW!  and get started with the 11.5 hours of free bonuses.

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Now onto the heavy stuff. Last week in sunny Los Angeles I had a chance to present a dedicated theory oriented talk about the latest and most advanced game ideas we’re teaching. AND something that you’ll like to hear about is a reconciliation of some Julien and Alex ideas.



http://youtu.be/UThSmNJgWck

LIKE I ALWAYS SAY! What is the first thing I taught you? That’s right: “there is no reason why you’re not enough!” The most essential of all self-help truisms.

I’m assuming that you're naturally attractive, and that is: if you spend enough time with a girl and you have value then the attraction is inevitably going to happen, like the last two people left on a desert island.

BUT WHAT IF YOU WANT THE INEVITABLE ATRACITON TO BUILD FASTER?

Then we introduce what we technically call the FIRE.

There are two types of fire, what Julien calls the ‘DRAMA’ and what I call the “Passion.”

The fire comes from boredom. You know that its just a matter of time for your arousal levels to build up and the girls to get more interested in you, so in your boredom as that time passes you self amuse with drama (negative expressions) like challenges, name calling and negs, or passion which is role plays, compliments and statements of intent.

In the mindset that “there is no reason why your not enough” you are always prepared for there to be some time in the interaction for the girl to overcome her fears and skepticism before she opens up, in your boredom you say things to make the passing of the time faster.

This FIRE dynamic is a trait of the natural, and something that you should adopt if you are in the shedding the social conditioning and coming back in line with your instincts… call it your NATURAL conditioning.

But there is a little bit of a problem with the advanced dynamic of the FIRE. It is designed to work for guys who are in congruence with self-value. And most guys learning game don’t have self-value in the context of cold approach.

If you don’t have self-value and you go to use the fire THE FIRE WILL BURN YOU.

Really you want the fire to accelerate arousal by adding extra heat to the interaction in a controlled way. You deliberately inject heat into the interaction to make the girl warm up toward you faster.

However if you have no control over the heat your teases and compliments can back fire and upset the girl. Especially if you try to replicate some of the INTENSE fire that the instructors use in field videos in Hotseat an in clips online.

Well, you will be glad to know that there are different levels of heat, and as you come more into congruence with self-value you can handle hotter and hotter temperatures.

But as you go through the personal evolution from social conditioning to self-value you will occasionally get burnt.

You will get tests, sometimes you will try to accelerate the interaction with heat faster than you should and then you can’t handle the repercussions. That’s fine, ENDURE IT, stand there like a silly person and feel sheepish.

It’s the same backfired heat and social pressure that’s going to make you stronger and more resilient to the next heated situation.

An evolved you; forged by fire.

So understand that you can use heat to speed things up, but understand that it has to be coming form the right place. You will enrich the interactions and become that much more effective at inspiring compliance from girls and then closing.

If you are in the process of developing self value then start to play with fire, not too much otherwise you might hurt yourself, but little by little build it up, until you are like some kind of social X MAN who can yield advanced dynamics whenever the need be. Just the same way instructors do.

I’m excited for you!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/AlexanderRSD

Check out the FIRE DYNAMICS in the Alexander Hotseat.

HOLLYWOOD TIMES! Los Angeles is so freaken awesome. Beautiful weather, beautiful girls, great food and incredible clubs.

I’m here rocking the Alexander Hotseat and the Alexander Free Tour! Did you hear about the Alexander Free Tour signup bonus that we’ve all been talking about? It’s pretty awesome!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGYJdszXmLw

Not only am I doing free tours that come with bonuses… the Hotseat is finally making it to the massive North American Cities!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBBkMtfd7p8

All those clips with full breakdown are finally coming!

Sign up for an Alexander Free Tour here and receive the bonus video of your choice!

So, when you sign up you can choose which of the 4 bonus videos you want,
1. Attraction Manifesto (290 minutes)
2. Create Initiative (100 minutes) (how to talk to girls and keep the conversation going)
3. Endure tests (220 minutes)(how to keep sets going, the 4 times rule and personal evolution from beta-male to alpha-male)
4. Physical Rapport (90 minutes)(make the girls comfortable, never sleazy, and add physical expression as well)

This is only valid if you sign up OR IF YOU HAVE ALREADY SIGNED UP for a future Alexander Free Tour. If you want access to one of these videos simply go through the sign up process.

www.alexanderfreetour.com : www.alexanderhotseat.com.

Check out the following events, the date is for the Thursday Free Tour, and the Hotseat is the Saturday 2 days afterwards! See you there!

UNITED STATES!

March 21, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA (7pm-9pm)
March 28, 2013: New York, New York, USA (7pm-9pm)

CANADA!

April 11, 2013: Vancouver, Canada (7pm-9pm)
April 18, 2013: Calgary, Canada (7pm-9pm)
April 25, 2013: Winnipeg, Canada (7pm-9pm)
May 2, 2013: Montreal, Canada (7pm-9pm)
May 9, 2013: Toronto, Canada (7pm-9pm)

AUSTRALIA!

May 23, 2013: Brisbane, Australia (7pm-9pm)
May 30, 2013: Perth, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 6, 2013: Melbourne, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 13, 2013: Sydney, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 20, 2013: Auckland, New Zealand (7pm-9pm)

EUROPE SUMMER!

June 27, 2013: Geneva, Switzerland (7pm-9pm)
July 4, 2013: Helsinki, Finland (7pm-9pm)
July 11, 2013: Stockholm, Sweden (7pm-9pm)

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Hey mates! I’m sorry that I can’t write you a longer in depth article today as I have a number of things going on right now that are viciously consuming my time. All things that I’m working on to give to the www.rsdnation.com masses!

Number 1: the 20X video… check out www.facebook.com/alexanderRSD for some screenshots. The video is called ‘make it like a movie’ and it will be an inspiration to everyone on this board and anyone on the internet. I can’t wait to share it with you. I’m working with a triple emmy award winning commercial producer to get it done. I think it will be live in early April. “like” the facebook page to get the exact details! I can’t wait to share it with you!

Number 2: The epic stories. If you like Tucker Max and you love pick up, these stories will be like nothing you’ve ever read. These stories have generated interested from a TV production company in New York City. They’re that outrageous. I can’t wait to get them done. I have about 6 lined up now, many more to write in the future. As soon as the 201X is done, they’re yours. I love "the story" and I want you to see your life as a story as well!

Number 3: I had a plan a little holiday. I have been told I have to visit Chapel Hill in North Carolina. So the great SEANY and I will be down there the weekend 5th of April. Anyone from there want to show us what’s what? Email me alexander@realsocialdynamics.com.

And the ongoing freetours, Hotseats and Bootcamps. I had a weekend off last weekend so no free tour blog. But I recorded a video on ‘DRAMA AND FIRE’ in Los Angeles that will be up on www.youtube.com/alexanderfreetour in a couple of days.

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I want to leave you with two pieces of unknown Alex content that are incredible.

Firstly my video blog on confidence. Made in Hong Kong after consecutive nights staying up late with gorgeous young 18 year old Swiss girls. Amazing.

This perspective on confidence will help you realize that confidence is incredibly easy to get when you understand the trick to thinking about it, and then trust that your confidence is going to make you even more attractive exponentially as time goes on.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qCVM2hbZO24

Secondly the legendary article ‘WHO ARE YOU’.

http://alexattitude.com/who-are-you/

It took me about 4 years to get my head and heart around the idea of ‘who I am.” In pick up its so important to trust ‘who you are’ to hold the frame and cause others to react to you. It’s a long in depth article that I wrote in 2008, admittedly at a time when I was far less mature and less experienced writer, but none the less I think the article will change your perspective on yourself forever, causing you to trust yourself more resulting in others reacting to you everywhere you go.

If girls NATURALLY react to you, they are aroused by you and NATURALLY attracted to you. And that is how natural game works.

Take the time to understand the article and you’ll never be the same.

http://alexattitude.com/who-are-you/

That’s all for now! Editing goes on! Ensure you sign up for the events in North America as my Freetours Hotseats and Bootcamps are selling out!

Honor the four times rule!

Alexander~
www.facebook.com/alexanderRSD

I’m here with TYLER in Miami and we’ve been having some very serious talks. We wondered how we could make the ALL CONQUERING Alexander attraction manifesto available to the masses… and we have come up with a solution!

We are re-launching the Alexander Free Tour. When you official register for one of the events listed below you can have the SECRET Alexander Attraction Manifesto OR any of the four SECRET NATURAL INSTINCT METHOD HOTSEAT BONUS VIDEO! Lemme explain here!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGYJdszXmLw

Sign up for an Alexander Free Tour here and receive the bonus video of your choice!

So, when you sign up you can choose which of the 4 bonus videos you want,
1. Attraction Manifesto (290 minutes)
2. Create Initiative (100 minutes) (how to talk to girls and keep the conversation going)
3. Endure tests (220 minutes)(how to keep sets going, the 4 times rule and personal evolution from beta-male to alpha-male)
4. Physical Rapport (90 minutes)(make the girls comfortable, never sleazy, and add physical expression as well)

This is only valid if you sign up OR IF YOU HAVE ALREADY SIGNED UP for a future (as of march 9th 2013) Alexander Free Tour. If you want access to one of these videos simply go through the sign up process.

www.alexanderfreetour.com

Check out the following events:

UNITED STATES!

March 14, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA (8pm-10pm)
March 21, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA (7pm-9pm)
March 28, 2013: New York, New York, USA (7pm-9pm)

CANADA!

April 11, 2013: Vancouver, Canada (7pm-9pm)
April 18, 2013: Calgary, Canada (7pm-9pm)
April 25, 2013: Winnipeg, Canada (7pm-9pm)
May 2, 2013: Montreal, Canada (7pm-9pm)
May 9, 2013: Toronto, Canada (7pm-9pm)

AUSTRALIA!

May 23, 2013: Brisbane, Australia (7pm-9pm)
May 30, 2013: Perth, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 6, 2013: Melbourne, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 13, 2013: Sydney, Australia (7pm-9pm)
June 20, 2013: Auckland, New Zealand (7pm-9pm)

EUROPE SUMMER!

June 27, 2013: Geneva, Switzerland (7pm-9pm)
July 4, 2013: Helsinki, Finland (7pm-9pm)
July 11, 2013: Stockholm, Sweden (7pm-9pm)

Click here and sign up now www.alexanderfreetour.com

If you’ve already done a bootcamp with me, or if you’ve done a Hotseat with me, or if you’ve signed up for a Hotseat with me then of course you get all of the videos for free.

There will be Bootcamps and hotseats running those same weekends.

We have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

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The question is which video are you going to watch first? New bonus attraction video, or the one listed below! The on in this article will certainly be shorter and easier to digest.


http://youtu.be/i0oX1i8ZZFk

One of the biggest revelations that I’m bringing to the RSDnation community is the mindset and lifestyle of ‘THERE IS NO REASON WHY YOU’RE NOT ENOUGH’.

I know that its quite a hard transition to make. A couple of peers this week have told me that my game and my advice is TOO ADVANCED for guys new to cold approach, guys who’re in a beta-male mindset, to understand.

Well let me tell you how I think about you as students. If you’re reading and watching this I’m communicating to you like my bootcamp and Hotseat students, elite clients who desire the best for themselves.

I talk to you like you’re going to be great. I talk to you with a strong and clear assumption that you will INEVITABLY understand and internalize everything I’m telling you.

To me teaching a student and communicating ideas is like a legend of any sport talking to his son. I talk to you with the expectation that one day you will be great. Its like ‘hey, I did it, don’t see why you wont as well.’

In the cases of son’s of sporting legends, or even princes of European kingdoms, from day one they are spoken to and immersed in a reality where ‘getting it’ is normal.

The exciting bit is the fun and insights you can have once we’re running with the assumption that you’re going to get it, and get it well. That when you go form competent to awesome.

In the video I talk to you about **owning your high value**. The paradox of giving away a free Ferrari.

If you are HIGH VALUE and you approach you are going to get a skeptical reaction.

If you are LOW VALUE and you approach you are going to get a skeptical reaction.

Based on external reactions you will always have it reinforced that you are lower value. That’s human nature (especially female nature) toward unknown stimulus like a stranger approaching you.

I want to tell you that the reality is people you’re approaching are unfamiliar, NOT DISSAPROVING! The wisdom of the Natural Instinct Method States that the “true indication of interest is when the girl is quiet and attentive.”

“Quiet and attentive” is a GOOD reaction. But a more normal and to be expected reaction is something like skepticism.

What skepticism really means is “interesting, I’m not going to give away my interest visually yet though because I want to see what else you can do for me”. Imagine you were going in to buy a retina display Mac computer, you already know you’re going to get it, but you’re not going to be the sales mans bitch, your going to pursue him to jump through a couple of hoops, look for some bonuses and discounts, and generally feel like you’re appreciated for being a paying customer.

Same with a girl.

So, can you comprehend, that your ‘bad game’ IS ACTUALLY YOUR ‘GOOD GAME’?

Of course, when you think you’re game is bad, it going to self-fulfil and you will ooze out ‘I suck’ vibes, which will suck you deeper into the fucked-up quicksand.

During those times of skepticism hold the ‘there is no reason why I’m not enough frame’ and what how your value doesn’t suddenly euthanize itself, but hold fast. Not high value, not low value, “there’s no reason why you’re not enough” value.

To jump the chasm of inexperienced guy lacking self worth to a ‘guy who gets it’ you need to simply adopt the reality of ‘there is no reason why you’re not enough’ exactly the same way the son of a sporting great is always talked to, and the way he will always talk to himself.

Don’t ever question that you’re not enough and those questions quickly fade into nothing.

Ha, in the contrary, as one question why you’re not enough an see your entire world fail catastrophically. You can seek ‘self tune up’ but you can never think that you’re broken and you need fixing.

Considering yourself even a little bit broken in a binary sense means you fail, and will continue to fail.

MAYBE YES you are a little broken, ailments, conditions, emotional issues… but they are actually pretty regular things! You are not broken. You are normal. You are enough.

So next time you make that approach remember the most important principle in the Natural Instinct Method TINRWYNE.

And watch the magic as you stop trying to prove yourself, and switch around to making the girl comfortable with the free Ferrari. She’ll be skeptical, but her skepticism, and you working with her skepticism will be the dynamics that convinces your emotional self that you are in fact enough.

Alexander.
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