Okay, heres the "sit" i met this girl at the bar/club last weekend. It seemed on, i had her smiling and there was some early kino. i kept going up and talking getting some laughter and than would leave. i did this about three times. however, on the last as i was talking to her friends, she turned her back to me, almost as though she was telling me "your not paying attention to me" and i looked at her, than back to the friend, the friend gave me a weird look, same one on my face. I know this was a shit test of sorts. so i poked her side and said something like "hey whats up" got some more converstion, than split immediately. im not sure how i should have handled this test, i know i could have done a better job. anyways. as my buzz was wearing off, and my money was depleted, i started to lose state rapidly, than i decided to bail. however, as i was in my car, i kept hearing ozzie in my head saying "close" so i went back in the club, with this determination on my face, walked up to the girl and got her number. i wasnt going to lose this one. so i know its not a full on makeout, but its still something.
any thoughts or suggestions would be much appreciated.
hey guys, this isnt my first time out sargin, but defintely my first time writing about it. anyways, im 26 and new to pick up. i approached at least 4 different peoples/groups tonight. half of which i knew. i had to get drunk before i could approach them. i know i shouldnt get get drunk to approach these groups, but im really insecure. anyways, i did alright tonight, my goal was to get into state but i only did for about 30 mintues. anybody got any suggestions for a newbie who has to get his shit together without depending on alcohol?
p.s. ive already listened to flawless, transformation, foundation, blueprint, jeffy, etc