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I went out from Wednesday to Saturday. I partied, approached, gamed, drank, danced... I might have done, in total, around 30 approaches, possibly more. Every subsequent set was not easier than the previous one, my approach anxiety was still there: I pushed through though.

-Wednesday night: it was especial holidays in France. Celebrating the french revolution. There were parties everywhere, in particular, at the firfighter's stations turned into nightclubs. The place was packed, I'd say about a thousand people. I was with two good friends, CA and my childhood friend from Colombia. We met a group of girls I had met the weekend before: but once inside we lost them. I was in state and I was on a set pretty much all night long from 23.00 to 4.30 in the morning. At the end of the night I got three phone numbers and a facebook contact. I was scalating quite alright, at some moment of the night I almost made out with a chick, but I did not do it. None of the numbers replied when I texted the day after.

-Thursday night: a repetition of the night before. I was in sets all night, reached the point where I could have made out again, even pull. The physical contact was intimate, I was hard, she could feel it. All sensual, yet I did not make out. She was a 7.

-Friday: met my wing, her new girl he picked up online, and the girl's friends, two couples. So it was me pretty much against the world... approached a lot. Had good and friendly reactions, but didn't close once.

-Saturday: it started well but everything got messed up when we were rejected from four nightclubs straight. Two of the chicks we were with, in a big group of eight, were totally hammered. No closing, just friendliness and drunkness. When I came home at 6.30 in the morning the first thing I did was to throw up.

I've been recovering after four nights of party. I'm exhausted and with a lot of work to do.

I can't wait until I'm out again, tomorrow Wednesday.

My personal computer broke so I've been unable to write more in length. I'm doing so righ now from work.

I just got Jeffy's book "Get Laid or Die Trying". It has inspired me a lot... although I myself have like 1% of his sheer power, it has had already a clear influence in my behavior.

The long weekend was intense. I pushed myself to be in a set continuosly, even though I didn't manage to pull. I did have the chance, twice, and let them pass my by. I'm counting with, that all these practice will make me grow even more... but the road to mastery is long. I can do better, I must do better.
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