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I was at a mall yesterday, but haven't approached anyone. I had a couple strong eye contacts and leered at one girl's ass like a creep pervert but no talking. Fine, I'll keep going anyway. It's starting to get interesting how long will it take for me to give in and approach a girl in a shopping mall. Scary scary.

I defend my self image partly with having some kind of agenda besides pick up. Yesterday I bought sushi rice and vinegar and it felt like I've accomplished something. LOL. When you can't pimp you find another ways to express yourself.

But I promise no side agendas today, I'm going to the mall with a sole purpose in mind and with a mission to approach someone. If I fail, it's on me. I might buy some milk on the way back though. Flexibility.
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#1

Full_intent~

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Join Date: 03/28/2009 | Posts: 1261

lol :D
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#2

modelforme

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Join Date: 02/07/2012 | Posts: 14

 It's all in your head man, just do it.

And don't think it like you are pimping, you just go out to get as much as referents experience you can.

Little thing that might help you approach:
Insted of going true your head: What should i say...Should i approach now...What will other people say and shit like that just ask yourself:

How can i make this fun ?

And you will want to do something thats fun. Trust me :)

Cheers man
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#3

Aaron

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Join Date: 12/24/2011 | Posts: 72

Take mspasic994's advice; the "How can I make this fun?" frame sets up a great headspace for approaches. It means that no matter what, you will have fun in the interaction—even if she is weird, or stupid, or drunk, or evil. Set yourself up to have fun, then the positive, friendly women will respond well. Of course, underneath this all, you need to actually be having fun :)
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#4

Aaron

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Join Date: 12/24/2011 | Posts: 72

 And another thing: Day game, in my opinion, is best as a tangential part of what you naturally do anyway. Meet women as you cross paths with them in the course of your purpose for the day. When I hit up the mall, my purpose is to go to GNC, or to buy a new hat, or visit the Apple store, or something, but I also approach women as I move from one place to the next. And not incessantly, but when I feel strongly attracted. In this way, it becomes less contrived and more spontaneous, and an overall more efficient use of your time and energy.
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#5
6pac

6pac

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Join Date: 02/11/2012 | Posts: 205

Guys, thanks for support!
mspasic994, I took your advice to the heart, it's awesome!
Aaron, I get what you're saying, but see, a lot of times I just use it as an excuse not to approach, like, 'I would approach but I have to buy some kefir' :) but I'm working on that.
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