Discover the exact how-to secrets that will make her can’t get enough of you using these 3 tips on how to keep the girl interested in you. Watch her get addicted, knowing that it’s practically impossible she would even consider dating another man.
I've been in a similar situation countless times: you start dating a girl, but no matter what you do or not do, her interest seems to vanish with time. Maybe you're not funny enough? Maybe she's met a more handsome guy? I researched and tried most of the popular ideas you can find on mainstream websites- only to notice NO change in my results.
With tons of time spent in trials of different ideas I made the distinctions and found some things that actually work. And they work well! I wasn’t the only one who invented and tested these ideas though. Thousands of rsdnation members who struggle with the same challenges as you and me were involved in the process.
Here's what to do, so you never end up losing the girl. These practical guidelines are effective in any situation: whether you want to keep a quality girl in your life, or you’re having a long distance relationship or you just want to date multiple girls at the same time.
The 3 simple, yet crucial tips to keep her hooked on you are:
1. Being driven by something is the best way to keep a girl interested.
"People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity."
Women know whether you have some kind of a drive in your life or you’re not doing anything meaningful. They can see it! Over the long-term this factor will determine her level of interest in the relationship. Even if you “entice” her to go out on a few dates with you, sooner rather than later she will notice whether you’re passionate about something or not.
For her it feels like the difference between dating Tom Cruise and dating a regular bum. This means that you can be passionate about, literally, anything you choose. Women don’t worry so much what it is that you love doing, they don’t even care if you’re that good in it compared to others. The activity could as well be your work as your hobby.
There is one key though- it mustn’t be about her. This means the source of your drive can be anything other than the quest of satisfying all her wants and needs and spending every minute of your time together. Reason being, she’s unconsciously searching for the vibe of a man who is “on his own path” and who doesn’t center everything around her.
2. Don’t succumb to her attempts to change your values and lifestyle.
Girls will always try to change who you are and what you do. They try to make you live the way they want you to, instead of the way you’ve chosen. Let’s say you’ve decided to go to the gym today and your girl starts trying to persuade you (or even emotionally blackmail you) to go to the movies with her instead. You know that by your value system going to the gym is the right thing and you don’t really want to watch a movie. What will you do?
As a man you will have to make these kind of choices from the minute you meet a new girl. These situations will always occure- even after years of relationship with her. Will you submit to her destructive (by your value system) demands or will you do what you really want?
One of the main reasons why girls lose their interest is that guys submit to every demand. They don’t know how to say “no” and this is a crucial skill. This is easier said than done, but when you learn to put yourself first she'll become more respectful and interested in you.
3. Satisfy her need for emotional stimulation or drama.
If she can’t satisfy her emotional needs with you, her interest will surely vaporize. A lot of this comes down to this drive and the ability to say “no” that we spoke about. But it’s about more than that- women will often try to create drama and emotional turmoil in the relationship.
Think of the last time a girl started arguing with you on something small. You might have gotten the feeling that she was doing it consciously and that it’s not because there was a real issue. This probably is the truth, but it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing.
She actually craves this emotional turmoil. Since she always will, you might as well embrace it and enjoy the little confrontations when they appear.
So to wrap up the 3 components are:
1. Be driven by something.
2. Don’t yield to her attempts to change you.
3. Learn to embrace the drama when she needs it.
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PS If you still don't know how to open consistently, check this article on how to approach a girl you like.
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